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x2 NYT Bestselling Author (Get The Guy, Love Life)

Los Angeles, CA
Joined March 2009
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Remember: having strong feelings for someone DOES NOT mean they’re right for you. In my latest YouTube video, I share the #1 question to ask in early dating. Tap the link matthewhussey.com/blog to start watching.
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You future partner is looking for you. Let me help you find them.
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Big announcement, everyone! I know you may be struggling to believe that your person is out there. But I promise you, they are not only out there, they are looking for you right now. What if you could meet each other in 2026?
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It doesn’t matter how January to April went. Maybe you got hurt, maybe someone broke up with you, maybe YOU left someone who was wrong for you, maybe you dealt with nothing but time-wasters, ghosters, and game-players…
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This is your RESET moment. And it’ll be so worth it. Finding love isn’t the be all end all in life, but finding the RIGHT kind of love has been one of the greatest things to ever happen to me. I want that for you too.
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For whoever needs to read this today. 🌄🌅 📸: @kw0430 (Image 1) & @ameenfahmy (Image 2).
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Not every friendship you want is one you get. My latest YouTube video dives into the reality of making friends as an adult and the importance of emotional reciprocity. Link in bio!
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Have you ever experienced the kind of love where you became more of yourself? Tell me about that experience in the comments. 📸: @Imtaesang (Image 1) & Matthieu Gouiffes (Image 2).
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Whether it’s a job, friendship, or relationship, you will find another one because you are the asset. Save this video for the next time you need a reminder of what you bring to the table. 🪺
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To whoever needs to read this: find someone who is willing to put in that time with you.
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If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how brutal it feels. It’s like the floor suddenly dropped out from under you. But here’s the truth: Ghosting isn’t about you; it’s about the other person’s inability to have a hard conversation.
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If no one was watching, would you still date the same 'type' of person? My latest YouTube video dives into why our 'type' often sabotages our love lives. Link in bio!
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"Meet in the middle” is movie poetry for “I’m not committing.” If someone gives you a vibe like Sonny’s, that is not romance; it's a stall. What would you do if the person you’re seeing answered “Where is this going?” with “Drive fast”? 🏎️🏁
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Emotional availability shows up in curiosity ❤️
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Have you ever confused standards with expectations in your dating life . . . Let me know in the comments. 👇
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Do men change? I get asked this all the time . . . and the truth is more nuanced than the internet makes it sound. When I met my wife, I wasn’t looking for commitment. A couple of years later, we were engaged. So yes, change can happen. But not in the way most people think.
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In this video, I break down what actually inspires someone to grow, the mistakes that keep people stuck hoping, and the 3 things that can shift the direction of a relationship—if you’re with the right person.
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