Zola

this is your reminder that if you want to make your partner's wedding morning a little more special to send flowers, or their coffee order, or a food they really like or literally just a note saying how excited you are.

Your grandpa at your wedding: "I'm having a great time!" Also your grandpa at your wedding:

How it feels to be 30+ on a bachelorette trip with women in their 20s.

How it feels to ask people to spend their PTO and disposable income on your wedding.

How it feels when your partner says, "I don't have an opinion, just do what you want, I don't know."

How it feels to ask, "So are you coming to my wedding?"

Groomsmen after 6 and a half minutes of photos:

POV: Me during my sixth "simple" DIY project for my own wedding

POV: The third night of the destination bachelorette after telling everyone "Be prepared to rage"

POV: Me sending final payments for the wedding I so desperately needed to have

Go over the seating chart and why we can't (in detail) have my Aunt Sue sit next to my Aunt Teresa because there's a missing Pyrex between the two of them after my grandma's retirement party in 2008 that's caused a divide in our family

Can someone please tell my partner to bring flowers and show up for the last 30 minutes of the shower so I can act like it was a surprise and they knew to do this all along?

the real madness is expecting me to plan a wedding while working a FT job

wow, those bracket winnings look just like the photography deposit

btw, if they can fill out a bracket they can fill out a seating chart

What my partner doesn't know, won't hurt them [but only in the context of how much we're spending on florals alone]

Me before wedding planning: Something modest, something chill, nothing over the top Me when I got engaged: Something modest, something chill, nothing over the top Me when I started planning: We'll find room for the swans, but I guess I can compromise on the dove release

willing to upgrade him to official husband

*adds to wedding registry*

Personally, I think your Le Creuset color says more about you than your zodiac sign