“Just because we’re family doesn’t mean I’m financially responsible for you. If I offer to help, it’s out of goodwill, not obligation. I’m also working hard to build my own life, and I can’t be expected to carry someone else’s financial responsibilities. Let’s learn to appreciate what people can comfortably offer. Kindness should never be mistaken for entitlement.”
Yesterday, my cousin asked me for some money for lunch, and I sent her KSh 1,000 without hesitation. To my surprise, she returned it today. I honestly don’t know whether she expected more, but it got me thinking.
Just because we’re family doesn’t mean I’m financially responsible for you. If I offer to help, it’s out of goodwill, not obligation. I’m also working hard to build my own life, and I can’t be expected to carry someone else’s financial responsibilities.
Let’s learn to appreciate what people can comfortably offer. Kindness should never be mistaken for entitlement. Going forward, I’ll be more intentional about where my generosity goes.
As my final act of love for Ronaldo, I will become the most disciplined,focused and obsessed version of myself. Win or lose does not matter, but I will never quit without a fight. No matter how bad it hurts, how lonely it gets, or how sad I feel, I will never give up on my dream.






