Ambee

“Taking a new step, uttering a new word, is what people fear most.” Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment.

If you work a 9–5 and still manage to stay consistent on this app, you have my utmost respect. Because honestly, how do you people do it? 😭

Dear ladies, don’t allow anybody to r*p* you without putting up a fight. Do everything within your power to escape. Scream, shout, bite, kick, fight back and draw attention to yourself. Make as much noise as possible. Your life and safety come first. Don’t be afraid to fight for yourself.

11:11:11

It’s a brand-new day, and I’m grateful for the gift of life and another opportunity to see it. Good morning, ladies and gentlemen of this street! ☀️

You met a man and introduced your business to him. He promised to patronise you whenever he was ready. For reasons best known to you, you started calling him repeatedly, insisting that you wanted to see him. When he eventually asked you to come over, you sent him a message requesting money to make your hair, fix your nails and cover your transportation. What exactly are you selling?

Today is a good day to remind everyone to vote wisely and make the right choice come 2027. Our votes matter, and we must be intentional about the future we want.

The only thing the average Nigerian seems to know how to do is form opinions, push agendas and stick to them, regardless of whether there’s any truth to them. Because why is it always “Nigerian women are this” and “Nigerian women are that”? At every opportunity, someone has something negative to say about Nigerian women. We’re even told that if we want to experience true love, we should date outside Nigeria. But something I’ve noticed is that a particular group of men, seemingly from a particular part of the country, are constantly making these allegations about a particular group of women. Somehow, they’ve managed to push this narrative so much that it is now being presented as the general reality of Nigerian women, even to people outside the country. But is this really the true picture? No. I’m a Nigerian woman, and I certainly don’t believe that all Nigerian women are bad. We cannot keep taking people’s individual experiences and using them to define an entire population. There are good and bad people everywhere. Nigeria is no exception and your experience is not our collective reality.

I’m awake, I hope I’m not wicked.

Elysium is trending and I thought it's the perfume.

It’s about to rain in Abuja.

Most of you don't hate injustice, you hate that you don't benefit from it.