I have noticed a trend with men. When a man does something terrible to a woman, they rarely care about the repercussions of his actions on the woman. They don't care about how it affects her life, her mental health, her future, or the trauma she has to live with. Instead, the conversation is always about the man. "Why would he do that to himself?" "Why would he risk his future?" "Why didn't he think before doing that?" Not because of what he did to a woman, or the harm he caused her, but because of what it might cost him. The Odogwu Asaba case is a perfect example. A young woman lost her life after being raped, and instead of focusing on the fact that a woman had been harmed, traumatized, and ultimately died, so many people were more concerned about how he had ruined his own life. Some even reduced the entire conversation to whether the girl was pretty enough, as if that was the tragedy. It's always jarring to watch because it reveals how little empathy many people have for women, especially men. A woman can lose her peace, her dignity, her future, or even her life, and somehow the concern is still centered on the man and what he stands to lose. Men genuinely do not care about women at all. They don't care about what happened to us women. They only care that a man might finally face the consequences of what he did.