21+. £25.00 initial DM tribute. Professional Dominant. Daddy Dom. Findom. Sub Trainer. Verbal Abuser. Master. Sadist UK based. International in reach.
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I am verified, fully, via Niteflirt and Debtkeeper.
You can read my posts, see my pictures, and learn plenty about me, purely by reading my timeline.
When you approach me, I know nothing about you. Not who you are, your kinks, your intention or your purpose in contacting.
So your first message should change that.
For example:
'Hello Sir/Master.
I love your posts and approach and I think you might be the Dom for me. My name is Phil, I am 35 years old and I am a submissive who loves to feel owned, and feel pain/pleasure on being used by a Master.
I can see you are a Findom and Professional Dominant. So you know I respect and value who you are, your skill, your knowledge, your power, and your time, I have sent your initial tribute of £25.00.
I need the attention of a Dom that truly understands my kinks, and can help me to grow, learn, and submit, properly.
Thank you'
Amen.
Now hear me out... What if you're not *actually* a sub and you just have submissive fantasies...
Have you fantasized about being submissive to a domme and give her everything she wants?
Have you been in multiple dommes DMs and never pulled the trigger to sending?
Have you gotten to the point in the conversation when it \*actually\* comes time to do something (a task, a send, etc.) and you ghost because for some reason you can't get yourself to do it?
Do you like to jerk off to the thought of being in a kinky submissive role-play but when it comes down to doing anything submissive you have zero interest in doing it?
If you've answered yes to these questions above, then congratulations! You have submissive fantasies and are not actually a sub. Finding a nice girl on Hinge who would want to do cute submissive role-plays with you in the bedroom might be a better option than working with a professional domme.
Genuine subs, and by that I mean subs who actually act upon submission, would follow through with dommes' tasks - not necessarily every domme's task, but yes, the general concept of following through on a task.
Genuine subs also understand that following through on a domme's task \*does not\* necessarily make them submissive in all aspect in their life.
This is a kink, they like to engage in the kink with a certain role which requires a partner to be the other role. If they don't work with the partner (domme) in acting out the requirements, tasks, rules, then the kink is not satisfying to them.
So- next time, before you enter a domme's DMs, ask yourself: Am I sub? Or do I just have submissive fantasies?
This will save a lot of frustration and confusion on BOTH sides of the DM.
To go all northern English for a second:
Thars nowt as queer as folk.
LOVE this.
Double gift! I just received General appreciation. from Tam via Throne. Thank you! throne.com/thedominantneed #Wishlist #Throne
I just received General appreciation. from Tam via Throne. Thank you! throne.com/thedominantneed #Wishlist #Throne
All those Masters/Goddesses who are burning out or lowering their boundaries are doing because they all failed to realise one thing:
They thought findom and kink this was all about pretty pictures and buzzwords.
But it isn't.
It has, and always will be about real connection.
Waking up to a send notification of over £200 certainly starts a Monday off the right way.
This one wants to be trained, and set free.
Who better to have as a Master than me?
My uncaged but chaste one is 18 days in now.
Of course, I'll be stretching and testing them up to the very end. Because I'm so cruel, offer them words of encouragement below to balance it out
Double gift! I just received A cup of coffee? from Tam via Throne. Thank you! throne.com/thedominantneed #Wishlist #Throne
Lazy Sunday for me today. Used a newbie early this morning for the first time.
East coast, so it was late for them. They went to sleep feeling contentedly sore, and eager for further experiences.
Rather satisfying, I have to say.
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A simple fact:
Submission is about being able to access the vulnerable part of you that is denied in every other way.