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Principal, mom, wife, striving to learn about Education/21st Century Learners by connecting with other educators #Advocate for student well-being; works@peelsb

Ontario, Canada
Joined February 2010
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Dear Principal, I suspect you're tired. Your job is demanding. The expectations are enormous. And some days, it can be difficult to remember why you wanted to become a principal in the first place. As Tim Messick once noted: "Job descriptions are written in such a way that a principal needs to be a superhero. A principal needs to have the power and strength of Superman, the intelligence of Albert Einstein, the popularity of Princess Diana, the political savvy of a presidential candidate, and the care and compassion of Mother Teresa." Sound familiar? You're expected to raise test scores, improve instruction, manage personnel, navigate mandates, respond to parents, and prepare students for an uncertain future. And that's just before lunch. With so many competing demands, it's easy to lose sight of what matters most. So how do we respond? We keep our eye on the ball. We remember that our most important work isn't managing programs or completing paperwork. It's creating a school where teachers want to work and students want to learn. We remove barriers for our teachers. We create a safe and supportive environment for our students. We build a culture where expectations are high, relationships are strong, and everyone feels valued. We take student achievement seriously. We analyze data, examine instructional practices, and challenge our teachers to continually improve. But we never forget that behind every data point is a student with a name, a story, and a future. We didn't become educators because we wanted to raise test scores. We became educators because we wanted to make a difference in the lives of young people. We remember that there are students walking our halls who desperately need us. The student who is being picked on. The student who has little support at home. The student who feels invisible. We advocate for them. We encourage them. We make time for them. And we remind our teachers that their influence extends far beyond the curriculum. Students may not always remember the lesson, but they'll remember the kindness. They may forget what we taught them, but they'll remember how we made them feel. There may not be one magical instructional strategy, but there is magic in connecting with kids. We've all written school improvement plans. We've all participated in developing mission statements. We've all attended meetings about goals, strategies, and initiatives. Those things matter. But people don't follow plans. They follow passion. And the best mission statements aren't framed on a wall. They're lived in the hallways and classrooms of our schools. The job of a principal will always be challenging. There will always be another mandate, another problem to solve, another fire to put out. But don't let the demands of the job distract you from the purpose of the job. You have the opportunity to empower teachers, inspire students, and help create a brighter future for the young people who walk through your doors every day. That's why you became a principal. And that's why your work matters. Keep your eye on the ball.
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YOU CAN LOVE HELPING PEOPLE AND STILL GET TIRED OF HELPING PEOPLE. Teachers. Therapists. Counselors. Nurses. Social workers. Caregivers. Parents. When you spend your days carrying other people’s stress, fear, trauma, grief, behaviors, and problems, eventually your own nervous system can start saying, “I’m full.” That’s compassion fatigue. It doesn’t mean you stopped caring. It may mean you’ve been caring without enough recovery. Here are 7 ways to protect yourself without becoming less compassionate: 1. Stop trying to save everyone. What: Help without taking ownership of someone else’s outcome. Why: Carrying responsibility for everyone keeps your brain in a constant state of stress. Start: Ask yourself: “Is this mine to carry, or mine to support?” 2. Create an end-of-day shutdown ritual. What: Give your brain a clear signal that work is over. Why: Repetition helps your nervous system transition out of work mode. Start: Walk, change clothes, shower, play music, or sit quietly for five minutes before entering “home mode.” 3. Protect something that fills YOU up. What: Do something where nobody needs anything from you. Why: Your brain needs experiences connected to joy, not just responsibility. Start: Find 20 minutes for music, exercise, reading, nature, friends, whatever feels like you. 4. Don’t wait until you’re 95% depleted. What: Pay attention to your emotional battery before it hits empty. Why: We often ignore being 40%, 60%, or 75% depleted because we can still function. Then we wonder why one small thing pushes us over the edge. Start: Ask yourself each day: “What percentage of my battery is left?” If you’re running low, don’t just push harder. Recharge something. 5. Practice saying “not today.” What: Set boundaries before resentment sets them for you. Why: Every “yes” costs time, attention, and emotional energy. Start: Try: “I care about this, but I don’t have the capacity today.” 6. Stop treating rest like a reward. What: Recover before everything is finished. Why: Everything will never be finished. Your brain and body need recovery to keep doing this work well. Start: Put rest on your calendar like any other important appointment. 7. Let someone help YOU. What: Talk, vent, laugh, cry, get support, or simply spend time with someone safe. Why: Humans regulate through connection. Helpers need helpers, too. Start: Text one person today: “I could use some time with you.” You don’t have to become less caring to survive the work. You need to stop believing that caring requires depleting yourself in the process. The goal isn’t to care until you have nothing left. The goal is to care in a way that allows you to keep caring. If you spend your life helping others, what percentage is YOUR battery at today? Drop your number in the comments. 👇 #CompassionFatigue #TeacherMentalHealth #TherapistLife #Burnout #MentalHealth
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There used to be a basic understanding that teachers deserved a baseline level of respect. Schools operated under the principle of in loco parentis, meaning “in the place of the parent.” When children were at school, teachers were trusted to set boundaries, correct behavior, and keep order. Respect for adults was assumed. It was not something teachers had to negotiate for every day. Most of us remember getting in trouble at school and worrying a whole lot more about what was going to happen when we got home. Because home and school were usually on the same side. Your parents may have asked what happened. They may have disagreed with a consequence once in a while. But you knew better than to walk through the door acting like the teacher was the problem. You were going to be asked one question first. “What did you do?” That did not mean teachers were always right. It meant adults believed in correcting children without turning every consequence into a courtroom. Too often now, some parents approach schools more like lawyers than partners. Instead of asking, “How do we help my child learn from this?” the first response becomes, “Why did you do this to my child?” Students watch all of it. They learn that expectations can be debated. Consequences can be negotiated. And if they push hard enough, an adult may be the one who has to defend themselves. That is a very different classroom. Yes, classroom management matters. Teachers should continue learning how to build relationships, prevent problems, respond calmly, and create a room where students can learn. But we cannot pretend skill is the whole issue. A teacher can have strong relationships, clear expectations, consistent routines, and still be cursed at for taking up a phone. They can be threatened for enforcing a rule. They can be publicly attacked for holding a boundary. They can even be assaulted for doing the job they were hired to do. That is not a classroom-management problem. That is a cultural problem. Teachers did not create a culture where enforcing expectations is treated as aggression. They did not create a culture where accountability is optional or where a parent’s first instinct is to protect a child from every consequence. But teachers are expected to manage the fallout from it. So when we blame burnout, turnover, and silence on teachers needing “better classroom management,” we miss what is really happening. This is not just about skill. It is about risk. Teachers should not have to worry about personal safety, retaliation, or public backlash for enforcing the expectations their school has put in place. Classroom management did not fail. The social contract did
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Disabilities and educational needs are not always visible. You cannot determine a student's support needs by looking at them.
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Very important for Ontario parents to know. Accommodations are not the same as Modifications. Please share this widely. #OntEd #IEP #SpecialEducation #OntarioEducation #Ontario
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Don't assume last year's accommodations will automatically carry over. Read the new IEP carefully. If something important is missing, ask questions early. #IEPTip #IEP
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If you have served in public education for 20 years or more, this post is for you. You are part of the roughly 28% who entered public-school teaching and were still in the profession two decades later. So for the veteran teachers and staff who have served for 20 years, 25 years, 30 years, and beyond, this is to celebrate you! You have endured some of the most difficult changes education has ever faced. You witnessed standardized testing grow into an overwhelming system of high-stakes pressure, excessive data collection, and constant documentation. You adapted to new standards, new technology, new programs, and an endless cycle of initiatives. You carried students and families through COVID, even while facing your own fears, losses, and uncertainty. You have watched respect for educators decline while expectations continued to rise. You have been asked to do more with less, solve problems you did not create, and meet needs that extend far beyond the classroom. And yet, you continued to show up. You taught the lesson again. You encouraged the struggling student. You supported the overwhelmed colleague. You welcomed the nervous parent. You kept schools functioning during some of the toughest years education has ever experienced. Most people will never fully understand what it takes to dedicate decades of your life to serving students, families, and communities. They will never know how many evenings, weekends, personal dollars, and pieces of your heart you have invested. There are adults walking through the world today who are stronger, wiser, and more confident because you once believed in them. To every teacher and staff member who has served for 20 years or more: Thank you for your dedication. Thank you for your sacrifice. Thank you for your wisdom. Thank you for caring for our children. Thank you!
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Bobbing for apples STEAM challenge, cupcake decorating, escape room, class party…what a day! Happy Halloween from 7A🎃 👻 🧙 🍎 🍭 @CamillaRoad
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Great turnout today for the first @CamillaRoad Chess Club session of the year. Lots of excitement and friendly competition ♟️@JackyElfiki
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Durri Ahmed retweeted
“The older you get, the more quiet you become. Life humbles you so deeply as you age. You realize how much nonsense you’ve wasted time on.”
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Spring break isn’t just a vacation for educators. It’s recovery. Teaching is one of the few professions where you give your mind, your heart, your patience, and your energy to dozens or hundreds of young people every single day. After months of pouring out support, encouragement, and stability for others, it’s essential to pause and refill your own tank. Rest. Sleep. Laugh. Spend time with the people who refill you. Because when educators take time to reset, they return not just rested, but renewed. And that renewed energy becomes one of the greatest gifts they can give their students.
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Did you know? 73% of principals and vice-principals report that violence in schools is interfering with learning in classrooms. Safer schools support better learning environments for students across Ontario. #ONPublicEducation #School
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🌟 Even on tough days, you're making a difference. (Reminder via P @jenna_bludworth)
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You don't have to be perfect to be the leader your team needs. ❤️ (Reminder P @flyingmonkey13)
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Replying to @Dursami
Thank you for showing up in an impossible situation. Keep going.
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Pink Shirt Day reminds us of the importance of kindness, respect and standing up against bullying in all its forms.#PinkShirtDay
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Great teachers don’t just teach subjects — they inspire confidence and curiosity. They build relationships that make students feel seen, valued, and capable. Every lesson is an opportunity to encourage growth, resilience, and kindness. Here’s to teachers!
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Durri Ahmed retweeted
Sweden is investing more than $110 million to bring printed textbooks back into classrooms. After years of pushing digital learning, the Swedish government is reducing screen use in schools and renewing its focus on physical books. Over the past decade, many schools replaced textbooks with laptops and tablets, moving lessons, homework, grading, and parent communication almost entirely online. During this period, student performance declined. Results from international assessments such as the OECD’s Programme for International Student Assessment showed drops in reading, math, and science, prompting officials to reconsider the role of screens in learning. Research indicates that reading on digital displays can demand more mental effort than reading on paper, especially for younger students. Screens also introduce more distractions, and studies have linked heavy digital use to reduced comprehension and memory retention. In response, Sweden allocated €60 million in 2023 to restore printed textbooks, with another €44 million planned through 2025. The aim is to ensure every student has a physical textbook for each subject. Officials stress that technology isn’t being removed from schools, but repositioned as a support tool rather than the default. Printed books are now prioritized for core learning, particularly reading. While Sweden remains highly tech-advanced, this policy shift reflects a growing global debate: whether more technology automatically leads to better education.
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My Wish for You Today I hope that every time life makes you feel like giving up You find enough strength inside to say: Not today.
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