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They’re tired. Tired of being told their only purpose is to suffer, to die, or to listen and shut up Tired of being treated as worthless — that all men are the same and should be punished for what others did Tired of having their deepest wounds weaponized against them from the one time they actually opened up Tired of the world feeling stacked against them from birth Tired of being cheated on, endlessly rejected, and ghosted Tired of being expected to pay, provide, protect, and act chivalrous and traditional — while receiving no respect, love, or admiration at all, ever Tired of living in constant fear of divorce — the kind that can take everything, including their children Tired of being labeled toxic and dangerous by default Tired of being told their masculinity is inherently monstrous and they should be ashamed of it Tired of doing the deadliest jobs… and dying Tired of being told to “man up” instead of receiving real help Tired of being considered disposable in every crisis or war Tired of watching their friends disappear as they grow older and slowly but surely having literally no one Tired of feeling invisible until someone wants money or favors — of being seen as just a bank account Tired of never being given anything Tired of being rejected as a friend without even being given a chance, simply because they’re a man Tired of having no communities that actually support them Tired of serving as the emotional punching bag with nowhere to turn Tired of having their emotions shut down the second they speak Tired of their pain being mocked and their suffering belittled Tired of being shamed with names like “stop being a baby” that humiliate their pride as men — over trauma most people couldn’t begin to handle Tired of their achievements and growth being ignored, dismissed as “privilege,” or shrugged off entirely Tired of being replaced the instant they show any weakness Tired of living in a society that only values them when they’re useful Tired of being told to not believe their own eyes and ears Tired of people telling them they have it easy, when it’s so far and beyond anything but I have many people I love, men and women, and despite not having that support for most of my life — despite suffering more than most people I’ve ever met — I now have those who have gone so far above and beyond to help me. People who I can turn to, whom I am and will forever be grateful for I don’t honestly often speak for myself on this platform. I’m not speaking for myself; I can handle hell. I speak for the ones who need someone to speak for them I’m tired of no one ever talking about truths that people find uncomfortable. I’m tired of the pandering, the grandstanding, the virtue signalling. People being afraid that if they’re honest they’ll be rejected, blacklisted, blocked. I’m tired of people always saying what everyone WANTS to believe, and never what people need to hear. I’m tired of people saying whatever it takes to get clout from people they can benefit from, even playing into lies because it’s the accepted narrative. Saying the easy thing for clicks or money You can have a spine, be a man, be chivalrous, authentic, and real, and still make something of yourself. You can go through literal hell, again and again and still make it through with a smile on your face, and a heart to lead I plan on being proof of that. Let go of anything keeping you from that path. The world needs you now more than ever guys