Malik Gunn

I wanna make something public that I should NOT have to. A few years ago I befriended two men at a horror con. They had no previous knowledge of what I did, I approached them because of their cosplay. We got along really well, hung out at the con together all weekend, even made two other female friends. When I would go to Cali I would make sure to see both of them as we had become close. We called each other family, and would always build each other up. One of the female friends toured for music and when she came to my city we hung out. Eventually the two women would split off from the group saying that the 2 men made them uncomfortable by spamming messages all the time. At the time, they did not make me uncomfortable with messages so I remained friends with everyone. Fast forward to my birthday. I had some friends fly in to hangout with me. I did not know the 2 male friends were flying out as well as a “surprise” and had assumed they would be staying with me. That was not okay with me. At the time I was seeing someone, and I had already offered the space I had to the friends I personally invited. I keep my personal life VERY personal. Not everyone needs to know I’m seeing someone, or the inner workings of my every day private life. When I found out about everyone coming I said announced that I would not have room to house everyone, and that my partner would be around for my birthday. This set the 2 male friends off. Apparently, in their head, they had planned to both date me. They also tried to convince one of my female friends that they should shoot their shot with me as well so that WE COULD ALL DATE AND MOVE IN TO (((( MY ))))) HOUSE LOL! So naturally I had a reaction to that but apparently that was not allowed. Since then I have been told these two men are going around saying they not only dated me, but that I abused them. This is just flat out not true. They have harassed me, threatened me with suicide, told me not to show up to cons, threatened me through third parties, mailed me ominous letters and refuse to leave me alone. One of them even has my “death date” in their Instagram bio. These men terrify me, and now I’ve been made aware they have feelings of physical violence toward me. I have never dated anyone named Tim/Peter (not sure what name he is using currently, sorry) or Oliver. I never cheated on anyone, those are lies. They are cosplayers, they go to cons. Tim/Peter is often dressed as ghostface and Oliver does Art the clown. They do attend adult events, they DO try to make industry friends. Please, please be careful. These are not safe people.