im starting to think that my ideal (and frankly most realistic) scenario is becoming androgynous. Fem enough that i can girlmode and not hate my appearance but not so fem that my coworkers start to ask questions.
first time getting sexually harassed in girlmode, weird drunk girl is getting all touchy feely with me and i told her to back off because im married, she says “prove it”
????????😭?????😭
and vice versa, having a passing voice will make u feel so confident even if you dont visually pass yet
common scenario for me:
>oomf who has never posted face complains about being ugly
>i dm them and they face reveal
>i hype them up because they arent ugly
>they start posting face and get compliments because they arent ugly
im just too good 😎
The fear of being ugly is preventing you from learning how to be pretty
sometimes when i have bad days, i find myself thinking about quitting twitter because i feel like a fraud. but then i remember all the dms and replies ive received from u guys saying that ive made a difference in ur life or that u love my account, and that makes me so happy :)
some of u guys just need to admit that the things u expose yourself to are cognitohazards that make dysphoria worse. you dont have to look at highbie selfies, u dont have read 4tran posts, just ignore ignore ignore! it isnt weakness, its self preservation
ive noticed that my most dysphoric days are always connected to moments when i let myself down. Every time I skip one of my daily goals, neglect my health or purposely linger in envious thoughts, i begin to feel disgusted with myself
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What’s helped me throughout my entire life is the mental practice of focusing on the present. You can’t directly control the future, so you’ll just end up depressed. You can’t fix the past so you’ll just end up full of regret. You gotta live in the here and now, and love yourself















