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As a young man, Learn to be a loner. You'll need it later in life, because your friends will later marry their wives and children. Their priority will be their immediate families and not you. Learn to go to the bar alone and sit alone to just chill and reflect on your life and the future of your family. A married man should not be hanging out with too many male friends. If it's not strictly business or work related, you don't need a crowd. That's how you survive this world. A man who keeps too many male friends is exposing himself and will eventually become too vulnerable. If you feel too lonely and you need company, rise one girl to chill with. Her feminine nature will calm your nerves and make you feel younger and a little happier. Other than that, hang out alone, most of the time. It will prepare you for your 40s and beyond. End.

If you are able to feed your children properly every day, please, as much as possible, avoid sending them to spend holidays or even weekends with relatives who are struggling to provide food, just because you want them to bond with their cousins. They'll either starve your children, or call them "spoilt" just because your children wanted two boiled or fried eggs, eight slices of bread, or more than one piece of meat. They may even say something awful to your kids that could have a long-term damaging effect on their psyche. Poverty is bad. End.