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The more time we spend around the opposite sex, the more compassion we can develop for them and humility for ourselves.
"Perhaps the reason young men and women are diverging on politics is not so much because they are being radicalised by the internet... but rather because they are failing to deradicalise each other through sustained, loving relationships in the real world".
—the wonderful Louise Perry in the @australian Weekend Magazine.
Avoidant men: you’re too much
Me: really? I’m normal. I give a normal amount of love.
The amount of love I give:
Hot take:
A lot of people are criticizing Elizabeth Holmes’ husband as being a narcissist when he really just seems like a smart, competent, protective, and culturally-fluent tech influencer.
Happiness creates optimism and confidence which are very sexy. But, being sexy also makes you feel optimistic and confident. So eat well and get in a flow state
Not believing in souls is such a different experience than believing in them. I dropped my belief in them this year. It’s interesting to observe people describing “spiritual” matters and feeling none of the intrigue or spark like I used to. I’m glad I lost magical thinking.
Being around live musicians and comics reminds me that we are no different than the ones on stage. The only thing lacking is audacity and discipline.
I saw Bill Burr perform in Phoenix. He shared how he used breath work and massage to release anger and sadness in his body to heal his chronic emotional dysregulation and I’m like damn, if this Gen X white man can do it, why not all angry asshole dads? Good for him.
When I go out to artsy places I always have to assume the people are woke. Then I remember what I look like and how people probably assume that I myself am woke. I wouldn’t want people to assume that of me, so I keep an open mind. Then I see furries and trannies there 💀
I saw Nathan Fielder’s film in theaters. I have many psychological thoughts but for now I’ll just say this… eye candy.
Becoming ready for a healthy relationship does not cause a suitable person to materialize within 60–90 days. It changes what you do when people actually appear.
That distinction matters because there are at least three separate variables: whether you are available, whether the person you encounter is compatible, and whether they are available and capable of choosing you. You can have the first variable completely handled and still wait a long time for the other two to coincide
Female genital mutilation right before our eyes 💔












