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Dudes in the comments acting like ‘take a shower, plan a date, and bring flowers’ is a personal attack.😂
The birth rates will never recover. 🤦♀️
Attention Young Men:
I am surrounded by 20 year old girls in my life that are smart, capable, hard working and cute. Nobody is dating them. Not sure what the deal is, but I don’t get it.
Step 1: Stop playing video games
Step 2: Head to great clips and get that lettuce cleaned up
Step 3: Hit a shower (when dating hygiene is critical)
Step 4: Go clean your car
Step 5: Sign up for a yoga class
Step 6: Go to the yoga class
Step 7: Ask a cute for her phone number at yoga class (yes you can meet girls IRL and not just on the apps - 10/10 the Dirt Dog highly recommends)
Step 8: Follow up within 2 days with a phone call and ask them out for this coming weekend Friday or Saturday night.
Step 9: IMPORTANT - come up with a good game plane for date night. Get a dinner reservation, get an activity planned. Let them know in advance what you are doing so they can dress appropriately. I know you are gunna roll off the couch and head to date night, but they are not. They are going to stress about what to wear and call at least 6 different people on FaceTime to ask their opinion.
Step 10: I highly recommend you bring flowers to the door step. I’m not covering that you go to the doorstep, because if you don’t do that you have no hope here. Women want men to date them. You don’t need to break the bank on flowers. Head to Trader Joe’s. Grab 2 different kinds of flowers. If you don’t know what matches find the closest looking lady to your mom at TJ’s and ask her. Wrap the 2 flowers into 1 bouquet with paper. Bonus Points you can cut open a TJ bag and use that as the paper.
Step 11: Be a gentleman on the date. She isn’t there to hear your life story. Ask her about her. For every 1 question you answer, ask her 3. Open Doors, pay for the meal, be polite.
Provided you follow most of this guideline you are highly likely to get yourself an opportunity for date number 2.
Keep going until you find someone that you can’t imagine not being around all the time. That’s when you have found a good one for you.
My life is complete with my wife as my companion. I wish you the same fortune in life. Happy Hunting.
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ALT chaotic doodle drawing, a forest with a lot of capybaras, a cat, pig and a possum, there is a skeleton and a ghost too. Some air ballons in the sky.
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“A growing body of research suggests that the primary cause of the gender pay gap is motherhood. Before people become parents, women earn as much as or even more than men do. Afterwards, on average, they earn less.”
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I am a WOC ally. I am actively listening. I am amplifying their voices. I am educating myself. I am taking responsibility for challenging systemic inequalities. It's called having a basic human empathy.
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Interesting to me how this is a *complete* reversal of conventional wisdom even 10-15 years ago.
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There's a literal world war on X going on right now.
Some Turk made fun of China, then some Chinese made fun of the Turkish flag or sth, and then Turks went apeshit and attacked China.
Japanese and Taiwanese joined the Turkish side cuz they hate China anyway.
The war spilled over to German Twitter due to many Turks living there, and now Germans have joined the battlefield too.
On China's side you have Greeks because they hate Turks, communists and White China economy enjoyers.
Meanwhile, there's an unrelated war going on between the French and Japanese because libs used a One Piece meme to support the France riots, but Japanese were like:
"Hell naw, don't appropriate our proud Nazi culture for your monkey immigrant issues."
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China in her infinite wisdom built the Great Firewall to protect people from themselves.
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i keep seeing guys use accountability incorrectly and i’m confused how it entered the lexicon and what they think it means
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Prime example of how the redpill is failing these men (likely on purpose). “Accountability” to who and for what? He didn’t talk to her for 8 days lmfaooo so, naturally, she dropped him.
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she suicide bombed Ethan's relationship for hasan, never before seen levels of fan dedication
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He’s thinking of her as a whore, talking about his “precious time and resources” and not getting a “return on investment” from her because they haven’t had sex yet.
Just do not have sex with these guys and they will flame out and leave you alone within a few dates.
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Sure, but COUNTERPOINT:
-majority of my single friends (mid 20s all the way up to 40s) have suitors.
-some of those men CLEAR THE BASELINE LEVEL OF ATTRACTION
-THE WOMEN ARE WILLING GO GIVE THEM A SHOT
-the men are just not courting
-so the women think the men aren’t interested because they’re not courting
-and they just move on.
I am POSITIVE a lot of those men ARE interested but either they’re lazy or are redpilled. Some, I’m sure aren’t interested, but they will make that clear early on.. the men who linger just aren’t courting.
DO NOT listen to her
her tldr:
- chads have choice and can behave poorly towards women
- non-chads are not attractive to most women, so their leading mating strategy is to court them, buy them presents, basically be simps
as the leading racial AND gender theorist on this platform, let me offer you - my dear non-chad friend - a superior strategy:
you should obviously be nice to girls, just like you should be nice to anyone, but if a girl is not interested in you, don’t bother courting her more, just leave and find another girl who does like you, there are 4.5 billion women out there, chasing after 1 that doesn’t like you makes no sense
you probably do need to lower your standards a bit if you aren’t that attractive yourself or take advantage of economic arbitrage and date someone from a poorer country but under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you try to convince a woman who doesn’t like you to date you
simultaneously, and most importantly INDEPENDENT from your dating strategy, you absolutely should try to improve yourself constantly which includes:
- be fit
- have good fashion
- know more than other people, especially deep niche expertise
- make young muni
this will make your life better in every way including improving your chances of being attractive to women
why you shouldn’t chase women who don’t like you?
there are personal and societal reasons
the personal reason is that you are putting yourself down and that does not serve you. you are basically saying to youself "by default, i am not worthy of this woman’s love so i will beg her to have pity on my sorry ass and date me" and that’s just so much worse than quietly improve yourself and make yourself worthy
the societal reason is that there are too many bitch ass niggaz out there who are too lazy to do a little bit of work to make themselves attractive and that put women on pedestals so now most women in society are entitled which makes dating hard for all guys
women should neither be put on pedestals nor should they be put down, they should have the same reality check as guys but due to dating apps most women have lost touch with reality and think they are the shit even they are mediocre
don’t encourage that behaviour. don’t be part of the problem
Intrasexual competition.They r very invested in getting other men to stop treating women well,so they can get away with not treating women well and act like that's normal.They talk about wanting "REaL DeSire" when all that means is 0 effort from them and maximum effort from women
It's crazy that men online insist on leading with doing nothing,offering nothing but just showing up. Yet the sex most known for being selective is supposed to go all out displaying interest and desire(reverse courtship)?As if they met their childhood celeb male crush or smth?🤔
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Men continue to convince themselves and other men that attraction from women ought to be instant.That 0 effort needs to be put into garnering interest.That needing to offer romance,courtship,commitment,or competing is just a sign of her lack of desire🤡🤦♀️
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Its kind of funny to me how men all want to be the prize now. Women used to be pursued, now men want to be the ones pursued. They want to be chased. They want the girls they find beautiful to think he’s out of their league. The old man trope of “I’m lucky she puts up with me” and he had to fight for his life to win her over just isnt worth the effort to these guys. You can blame their opinion that they think women arent worth it but it seems more like learned helplessness. Men were dying in war while getting Dear John letters. It cant possibly be worse now. I think its some hormone issue. Theyre literally willing to just roll over and die than put any effort in.
Im trying to picture it.. the loser in a village of 5 women his generation who are all spoken for already. He has no prospects. No phone to harass women on twitter, no girls to groom on discord. Its bleak. Your village has a few other single guys and they’re going to pillage another village. You go fight with your tribe but you wont take home a war bride. The one you could get was already a mother. “Gross. Sloppy seconds and who knows what else? Id rather die alone.”
Now you dont even have to risk dying to abduct women from somewhere else. You have millions of them on your phone. You just have to figure out the right string of words to get them out. “No” he says.. “they should be begging me for a chance. I refuse”
Some of this used to be common knowledge. A lot of dating woes and rage online today seems to often come from projecting and expecting this kind of instant attraction and interest from any woman,then getting disappointment and resentful when it doesn't work out.
The TikTok guy falling in love after a friendly dance at a Bruno Mars concert typifies a lot of research.
Men tend to overestimate women’s sexual interest, particularly when they find the woman attractive (Perilloux et al., 2012).
Men also tend to fall in love faster (Bode et al., 2025).
Some studies find that men overestimate their own attractiveness more than women do (Yoder et al., 2017).
Dating-app research also finds men pursuing women more desirable than themselves (Topinkova & Diviak, 2025), although aiming higher on dating apps isn’t exclusive to men (Bruch & Newman, 2018).
Research also tells us what might happen next…
Rejection can lower mating aspirations (Kavanagh et al., 2010). Repeated romantic rejection is also associated with lower partner standards and greater willingness to compromise on them (Charlot et al., 2020).
As Dirty Harry put it: “A man’s got to know his limitations.”