Not risking my gym membership approaching women based off eye contact. Also, we were told "don't approach us, leave us alone" - we listened.
Accepting the "calm date" doesn't necessarily mean that she's a good woman, but it does mean that she's genuinely into you. If she insists on dinner at a high-end restaurant, she's not interested in you, only in what she can get from you.
They want the 2% of the guys in the gym to hit on them, and the other 98% to not even look on them. That's the reality.
