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Johannesburg, South Africa
Joined September 2010
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Replying to @TiffanyFong
Trumps policy allowed Nevadans to vote to expand abortion access.
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It is vital to raise your children so that when they become adults, they are excellent at managing risk. This cannot be done while keeping them safe.
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Parents, you don’t have to be at practice.
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I’m gonna give 10 random people that repost this and follow me $25,000 for fun (the $250,000 my X video made) I’ll pick the winners in 72 hours
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People have this capacity within them to set the world straight.
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You can only find out what you actually believe (rather than what you think you believe) by watching how you act. You simply don’t know what you believe, before that. You are too complex to understand yourself.
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Behavioral scientists don’t debate nature vs nurture, we discuss how the two interact
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Sometimes I simply remind patients that sooner or later they will have to relinquish the goal of having a better past. Irvin D. Yalom #patients #therapy #past
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A little bit of all formats during this year’s Grey Cricket Festival - schoolcricket.co.za/a-little…
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What do South African Test cricketers do on all their days off?
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Our natural desire and pull towards romantic relationships is one of the strongest desires we have. When we have attachment wounding, relationships can actually become addictive and all consuming.
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The retirement age needs to be lowered to 25. I’ve had enough
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The partner you choose to spend your life with comes with: a mindset, a set of habit behaviors, and an overall belief of the way the world works. Each of these will have a massive impact on your daily life.
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It can be f*cking SHOCKING how brutal many of us have learned to be w/ ourselves in our own head. I literally cried when I started keeping track of my self-talk. Going from mentally doubting & mocking ourselves to having our own back & being on our own side is a game changer.
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Someone needs to hear this: the perfect partner doesn't exist. The perfect relationship doesn't exist. Human beings are flawed. We're all doing the best we can. Release the illusion of perfection and embrace the messy, vulnerable journey we call love.
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Don’t worry too much about this result @Argentina, Spain still won the WC in 2010.
Codependency is the chronic neglect of ourselves for the pseudo love and approval from others.
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Some random learnings in my first year running my own company: 1. 90% of what you do is putting out fires;
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A partner who’s willing to do the inner work, to vulnerably share their emotions, and who believes in the best version of yourself is a spiritual gift.
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McWilliams was asked what she’s really passionate about - “Appreciating individual differences and not presuming that you know other people’s psychology before you let them teach you about it.”
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