Lol A lot of the "problems" with the men here are core features of traditionalism, which have been redefined as "red pill", "manosphere", and "right wing". So it is hilarious that a woman who is clearly materialistic and "traditional" about the role and expectations from a partner, even for a first date, seems to have a deal-breaker that excludes them when it is time to reciprocate. The classic Schrödinger progressive Nigerian woman.