“Coach Doesn’t Like Me.” It’s a common phrase. And a dangerous one. It’s easy to say when things aren’t going your way. But let’s be honest, it’s usually deflection. Here are 5 things coaches actually don’t like: 1. Poor Body Language: Eye rolls, slumped shoulders, disengaged energy. These tell a coach you have checked out. 2. Lack of Effort: Not sprinting, not diving, not competing. Coaches don’t need perfection, they need effort. 3. Excuses Over Ownership: Blaming refs, teammates, or circumstances instead of owning your mistakes will wear on any coach. 4. Low Accountability: Missing workouts, showing up late, forgetting plays. These little things add up fast. 5. Team-Last Attitude: Putting yourself above the team, whether through selfish play or drama. It kills trust and culture. When you say “Coach doesn’t like me,” you shift the blame. You make yourself the victim. And you adopt a losing mindset. Winners ask: What can I do better? Victims ask: Why is this happening to me? One mindset leads to growth. The other keeps you stuck. Choose wisely.