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After gaining over 700 new followers the past day, I wanted to introduce myself to all of you and reintroduce myself to current followers.
Post 30 here in Miami and I talk about Bachelor life after 30 as well as various cultural, political, and social trends that impact single men.
When I was in my early 20s, I used to wonder, what alternative is there to life if you don't get married and have kids in your 30s? Is it a lonely miserable existence?
Well, now I am living that life and I have to say it's amazing.
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I have to say, homelessness is getting worse in Miami, especially Brickell. Like a couple of years ago, we had homeless people but it wasn't NYC or San Francisco level of harassing you bad.
Now there is some old White dude in a hat going around shouting at and challenging people to fights, pretty sure it is a recent character that arrived.
Saw a drug addict punching a pole and violently banging his head against it a month ago.
These new homeless characters are on the level of San Francisco.
Despite being partial to blondes, I'd say 90% of the time when I see an Indian guy with a hot White girl, she looks ethnically like this:
1. Brunette/dark-haired (always)
2. Pale skin
3. Freckles
4. Blue or green eyes
I've met Indians with hot blondes before but it seems like the brunettes came and practically monopolized us.
The Indian man is the type I talk about in this post below:
post30.substack.com/p/the-da…
You have to know Rubio's background and upbringing, he played football in high school and was a prototypical Chad. Even Trump was a Chad in his youth. Both are winning in life as adults.
Such guys cannot relate to the masses of incels on the far right and there is the disconnect. To a Chad, actual racism makes no sense. Sure, a race joke here and there? Why not. But actual outright hatred towards a group? Confusing.
There in lies the disconnect. While the leaders were too busy handling real problems, the entitled incels in their very movement took over.
And if you want to see how the winners do it, click below so you can be one yourself:
post30.substack.com/
Remember when this site tried to gaslight us and tell us that Mamdani is not Indian?
This man is pivotal in reversing Indian Hate because of the psychological damage he has done to this new Woke Alt Right.
Mayor of America's most important city as they wither away in their trailer parks, flyover country, irrelevant tier 2 cities and suburbia.
This week, I was blessed to join Hindu New Yorkers in Queens celebrating Navratri, Durga Puja, Dashain, and Vijayadashami.
We danced garba, performed aarti, witnessed Sindoor Khela, and honored the Goddess Durga.
It was an honor to come together in joy, faith, and community in temples across our city — especially after the attempted mass shooting at a Hindu temple in Illinois last week.
May we all join together in our shared responsibility to stand against hate and care for one another.
Jai Mata Ki.
You are starting to see pushback against Indian hate more and more in 2026.
Expect Democrats to win the mid-terms by a landslide in a month.
A lot of these Alt Right Grifters crying about H1B Visas are going to get drowned out and dragged fast, even by MAGA as they regroup.
Meanwhile, expect for mainstream society to start loving Indians just to spite the wounded Alt Right and mock its grifters.
These 2027 is going to be one entertaining year!
People wonder how MAGA got this extremist, especially after Trump made huge inroads with minorities in 2024, and the answer is a lot more simple than we would like to think.
Ever since Elon acquired X, the incels got a bigger microphone. Guys who underachieve with women have extreme politics because they think government will fix all of their woes in life. It's why even Elon and Trump at time can't relate to the radicals in their base.
However, since they got the bigger microphone, they could influence politics and run their agenda more.
What was clamping down on illegal immigration turned into "remigration" of all minorities because if you get rid of all the Indians, Bubba from the boondocks can finally go work at OpenAI.
Suddenly, they wanted to repeal the 19th Amendment because if women cannot vote then that means Mr. Incel can finally have the government change to his favor and get that supermodel 18 year old virgin he feels entitled to.
Who can forget Fishback's hilarious run at governor of Florida and trying to impose a "Sin Tax" on OnlyFan girls?
The outcome? Entire communities that Trump won alienated and a Democrat landslide incoming.
As for this extremist Twitter Right’s new nightmare, its this:
post30.substack.com/p/the-da…
It's time for us to analyze exactly why incels hate Indians so much, it's been going on for over a decade and is now manifesting in politics as incels infest the Far Right.
Instead of focusing on Indians, we need to focus on the incel and truly understand them. At the least who go into Far Right politics and resort to hatred.
These specific incels are some of the most entitled and egotistical people out there. They can barely hold a conversation with a woman and think they are entitled to an 18-year old virgin with model looks. This entitlement carries over to what they feel like their lives should be.
They want the high paying career. However, let's go back to why they struggle with women. They don't bring anything to the table yet want the 18-year old virgin. They don't bring anything to the table and yet want that high paying career.
Do incels take accountability? No.
Can't get that supermodel? The dating market is hypergamous! These women only want "Chad". We should ask for change!
Now enter Indians.
Thing is, incels hate Indians and Jews because not out of actual hatred, but because they have to in order to run from accountability. It's the same reason they hate "modern women".
You can never get an incel to be accountable and honest with themselves, their ego is too big for it.
It stops them from changing their lives in any meaningful way.
Now we are all left dealing with it.
One thing you learn about incels is that they are some of the toughest people to help in any meaningful way.
The reason is they actually have the biggest ego and are by far the most entitled kind of guys you will meet.
In reality, that's all they have left. Life has done them so dirty be it through their upbringing or circumstances that all they have left is the ability to be "right".
If you offer them any suggestion or try to help them, they will try to outargue and outdebate you every time.
It's almost tragic because they need all the help and advice they can get but taking it means hurting the only thing they have left in their lives, their ego and any last bit of pride.
Most of the time, you just have to let it get so bad that they are willing to do anything to change.
Here is an example of alt right incels not understanding female nature.
Whenever a pic of a hot blonde with an Indian guy is posted, they react with passionate hatred towards Indians. In their minds, this should deter women from getting with one.
It actually does the exact opposite. It creates a forbidden fruit syndrome. There's a reason a lot of women sleep with guys that they are "warned" about.
Anyone who understand the nature of women would understand this.
The funny thing about these Alt Right Incels is that they fail to understand the US just like they fail to understand beautiful women, it's why they're incels.
They think a hot girl owes them something because she grew up across the street from them or is their "heritage". But in reality, she's going to pick the best man for her and do what's best for her.
The US is kind of the same way, it's always going to favor whoever helps it prosper. If that immigrant on an H1b Visa benefits the country more, it is 100% choosing him over someone living in a trailer thinking their "heritage" entitles them a great job.
If you are a Millennial guy, you caught the Last Chopper out of Saigon in terms of self-improvement and finding the community for it.
You spent your developmental years online hearing largely positive optimistic advice. The Black Pill, Incels, and doomer stuff hadn't really kicked in until 2015 or so.
I feel for Gen Z guys and younger who had to spend their teenage years online taking in such spiteful, hateful, and negative content. That is forever imprinted in their subconscious mind and will plague their lives forever.
The stuff you learn from 13 to 19 impacts your mind and character for life.
Maybe it's nostalgia but I feel for guys who did not spend their formative years on the internet in the 00s and early 2010s. It was just a more wholesome and fun place.
Even male self-improvement communities were full of guys who just wanted to see other guys win. Did not matter the nationality, race, religion, or any of that.
No doubt you still had people causing ruckus but it was more of the minority than than the majority.
Somewhere around 2015 or so, it all went downhill and then after 2020, it really amplified.
One major thing I see happening in the next decade is entrepreneurship, especially the "solopreneur", being outright shamed, taboo, and attacked while the 9 to 5 lifestyle becomes glorified.
Same thing happened with bacherhood a decade ago.
So many circles used to glorify "spinning plates", avoiding marriage, and living life for yourself until you die. Then at some point in the 2020s, that all changed over a period of 2 years. The Christian Right infiltrated the Manosphere and the whole narrative changed overnight.
Suddenly, you were going to die alone and live a meaningless life if you did not start a family. It became the necessity for a happy life.
When these corporations keep losing talent to guys starting their own thing and being their own boss, they will come down on it. They will go after the idea of working for yourself and push the 9 to 5 life as peak.
Same thing happened to bachelorhood.
Putting an incel through some pickup bootcamp where he approaches a ton of women is like asking an unathletic guy who has never played football to do a bicycle kick, not happening.
In reality, the worst thing you can do to fix your dating life as an incel is spam approach a ton of women and get rejected. No matter what "tactic" or "technique" you learn, you will come off as awkward and uncalibrated.
What you should be doing instead is:
- Building a social life so you can learn how to socialize
- Trying to win on dating apps where women are already into you
- Going out with social and fun guys who can help teach you social skills
- Meeting women through friends
- Avoiding toxic online communities
Do this for 2 years and you will not recognize your past self. THEN you can do cold approach.
One of the worst things you can tell an incel or any socially awkward guy is to randomly approach a bunch of women on the street or even in the club. No amount of "techniques" or "tactics" are going to help because the problem is subconscious and hard to put a finger on.
He is going to come off as awkward no matter what he does and grossly underperform with women. Further more, it is going to crush his confidence.
Instead, he should focus more on making friends, building his social life, using dating apps, and having good social skills.
If he can get hot women to be his friends and invite him to things, he probably has the social skills to cold approach and not come off as weird.
Common traits I have seen in guys who actually get results from approaching women in public or at bars and clubs:
1. They have a strong social background.
Popular in school, played sports, socialized a lot, etc.
2. They have attractive female friends who they can invite anywhere.
I have rarely seen the loner PUA types do well.
3. They rarely make it come off as a cold approach.
You see the interaction and it is indirect, it's like they knew the girl for ages.