Poetic Justice

I’m all of “there” person no matter where I’m at

I have to remind myself that…the relationship will remain close no matter where I go. That’s the beauty

Our relationship is so closeeeeeee and he never lived in Detroit during my childhood

Idk how my uncle did it for all my life being away in Vegas

Family is important to me

Me moving before her 12th birthday really changed things even though she came to ATL to spend it with me

My oldest was at my house every weekend from the time she was 4-11…

I come home every month but we don’t really get that “alone” time like we use too on a consistent basis

When i was there we spent alot of alone time my house was the escape

I do think me moving away these last 5 years have definitely changed the relationship

My older niece is more closed in but open lol it’s weird

My baby niece is tough but emotionally sensitive

My big niece is not like my lil niece and my nephew is nothing like the girls, he’s actually the most gentle

One thing I have learned is they are all different forsure

This practice is interesting, 3different personalities 3 different little people

Being a safe space is important I just hope i learn the right ways once i step into motherhood of my own

But you don’t want them to fear you and not open up

It’s weird like you can’t be a child friend because they have to respect you

My nieces and nephew I want them to come to me and have that freed space but also respect me I’m your friend but I’m your superior,adult

I fear my mom but also I can tell her anything but I respect her