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Sometimes I wonder if cheaters know the extent of damage they cause on their partners because if they knew, why would you do it unless your whole goal was to psychologically damage someone?
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Nigerian women don't talk about women from other countries, or even talk down on them bcos we don't even think about y'all but y'all stay talking about us.
Especially the Nigerians by penetration. Is everything okay in your marriage? Is the cosplay not working?
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You know the problem with staying with someone who is cheating on you is that your life can slowly start deteriorating without you even realising it.
You may develop anxiety that eventually leads to depression. You may lose your confidence and self-esteem, start doubting yourself and questioning your own worth. Before you know it, you're living like a detective in your own relationship, constantly looking for clues, questioning everything and overthinking even the smallest things. You lose your peace of mind because the trust is no longer there.
And the sad part is that even if you choose to forgive, it doesn't mean you'll forget. You may find yourself constantly fighting battles in your mind because of something someone else chose to do to you. That kind of emotional distress can affect your mental health, your work, your relationships with other people and so many other areas of your life.
The betrayal itself is painful, but sometimes the psychological toll of staying is even worse. You may end up losing yourself while trying to save a relationship you didn't break.
So yes, I would leave. Not because forgiveness is impossible, but because I refuse to subject myself to a life of anxiety, suspicion and emotional instability just to keep a relationship. My peace of mind and mental health are far too important to sacrifice for someone else's inability to be faithful.
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This is one of the things wrong with the “dating pool.” A lot of people are still in constant communication with their exes. Nobody wants to start over, people would rather hold on to what’s familiar, even when they know it’s not healthy.
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Whole time you thinking y’all in love, then you check that phone and realize you been the only one playing for keeps.
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I genuinely don’t know how to begin explaining the extent of the betrayal I’ve experienced in my relationship. Simphiwe has confirmed that he’s been cheating on me with someone else throughout our relationship. And the more I learn, the more disturbing the details become.
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men talk so disgustingly about women
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¿QUE PERRA MADRE ACABO DE LEER? Que puto asco de cultura 🤮🤮🤮🤮
متزوج لي 6 شهور، وقبل يومين رحت أنا وزوجتي نزور أهلها، وبعد ما جلسنا ساعتين قلت لها يلا نرجع البيت لأن عندي دوام بكرة.
أبوها قال خلّها تبات عندنا كم يوم تساعد أمها بالطبخ، عندنا عزيمة. قلت له ما أقدر أتركها، لكنه رد علي وقال لا، ما راح تروح معك.
طلعت من عندهم وأرسلت لها رسالة قلت عندك ساعتين وترجعين البيت، وإذا ما رجعتي لا ترجعين له مرة ثانية. ردت علي وقالت ما أقدر أكسر كلام أبوي، كلمه وإذا وافق أرجع.
رجعت وكلمته، لكن خلاص كنت أخذت قراري. قلت لها خليك عنده، وبيتي ما راح تدخلينه مرة ثانية. والحين أفكر بالطلاق، لأني أشوف إن زوجتي ما وقفت معي في موقف كان المفروض تكون فيه شريكتي.
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Passport privilege is so real. WDYM someone with a bartending job from America can save up, book a flight and spend months traveling through Africa
while someone born in the very same countries they are visiting can't even get a visa approval.
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Watching people’s Lagos snap stories while you’re eating at a steakhouse in Houston would have you feeling like you’re missing out on something special here, lol.
Please ignore that feeling, it’s the voice of the devil, you will cry blood at Ozumba Mbadiwe lol.
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Cheating is one of the worst things you can possibly do to a mental wellbeing of your partner on this earth with consequences that can last for decades and destroy trust in all future relationship. It must be shamed.
Its not something that just happens, you are simply a slut.
