Mrkadekeye

Simi was asked the first meal she would make for her husband after the wedding She said she will make Noodles and egg or pizza. She even went on afterwards to clap for herself for her answer. Her husband Femi wasn't a bit alarmed or even showed any form of surprise at her answer. You could obviously tell he was very cool with it. I chuckled and smiled at them. Moreso, I smiled at the diversity of Human preferences. It made me remember a friend who is married to a man whose favorite meal is Tea and bread. If you wanted to make the most amazing meal for him, just set him a cup of Tea and bread. His second favorite meal is Golden morn or noodles. You see, this friend is such a great cook and had fantasies on how she would spoil her husband with different delicacies, only to now be married to a man who absolutely didn't care. Infact, if you spent an hour making food in the kitchen, he saw it as an absolute waste of time. Human preferences! Again, I remember another friend who's husband is the cook of the home. This girl doesn't know how to make the most basic meals and her husband is so comfortable covering it up for her while she learns. Recently, he even bought her a car. Human preferences!! Again, I remember living with a lady and her husband many years ago. Her husband needs her to make him fresh meals everyday and even after almost 25 years of marriage she never complained. He doesn't Eat out or even eat any meal made by anyone aside her. She doesn't travel because her husband always needed her around for even the most basic things like drawing a bathing water. On the outside, you would pity her but if you came close, she was absolutely enjoying her marriage. Human preferences! I have intentionally brought all of these scenarios to show us how diverse human preferences can be. In the real world of Relationship and marriage, there is no one size fits all. Everyone must learn to understand their own person and do what absolutely works for them Copied