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Please Post Anonymously. My Nigerian Boyfriend Loves Doing Tlof Tlof on Top of Graves!
Are there any Nigerian guys here? I need answers because I'm confused! I have been dating a Nigerian guy since the beginning of this year. Yoh, this man is handsome, has money, and treats me like a queen. He buys me things, gives me money, takes care of my needs, and takes me to places I've only seen on social media. I won't lie, life with him is sweet!
The truth is, I have been struggling in relationships for a long time. I've dated people who made me cry, disappointed me, and made me feel like I was asking for too much. I had almost given up on love until I met this man. For the first time, I feel like someone is really taking care of me and making my life easier.
But there is one thing about him that is starting to worry me. This man loves having tlof tlof on top of graves! Imagine booking a hotel, only for him to drive us to a cemetery instead. He will look for a grave, climb on top of it, and expect me to join him.
I honestly thought he was joking, but this man was serious. When I asked him why he does this, he told me it's a common thing in Nigeria. Now I'm wondering if he's telling the truth or if he's just playing me. So far, we've visited almost three different cemeteries, and at each cemetery, we've done it on top of two different graves! Imagine, two graves at every cemetery! I don't even know what to say anymore.
I know this already sounds crazy, but recently things got even worse. My boyfriend insisted that we go to my own mother's grave at midnight so that she could accept him as my partner. I was shocked when he suggested it, but he kept insisting that we had to do it. Eventually, we went there in the middle of the night.
Imagine standing at your own mother's grave at midnight with a man you love, doing something you never thought you would ever do in your life. I never imagined that my love life would reach this point!
The scary part is that sometimes I feel afraid of him. I don't understand how someone can be so loving and caring in one moment, then want to do something like this the next. Part of me is scared of him, but another part of me loves him because he does everything for me. If I need something, he provides it. He spoils me and makes me feel special in ways I've never experienced before.
I'm scared to tell my friends or family because I know they will laugh at me and start calling me Lesilo. But I also can't keep pretending that this grave thing doesn't bother me.
I think I'm falling in love with him, and after everything I've been through in past relationships, I'm scared of losing someone who finally treats me well. But at the same time, I don't want to ignore my fears just because a man has money and takes care of me.
Honestly, how am I supposed to get comfortable doing tlof tlof on someone's final resting place? We can afford the best hotels, but somehow the cemetery is his favourite destination!
Nigerian brothers, please tell me the truth. Is this really a common thing in Nigeria, or did I find a boyfriend with his own special ways? Has anyone ever experienced something like this?
Please advise me. How do I know if I'm holding on because I truly love this man or because I'm afraid of losing the life he has given me?
Hi, Please hide my name. Is it possible to resign from witchcraft? I voluntarily joined the next door gogo's night shift gigs hoping I would be able to deal with my baby daddy for breaking my heart and abandoning our child. The things that we do are not what I expected. I only wanted to deal with my baby daddy but they are choosing targets for me, mostly my friends and family members who did nothing wrong to me. When I mention my baby daddy they say I must shut up. I told them I want to quit and they told me I signed a lifetime contract. I honestly want to quit before I hurt people I love. Please assist me.
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Prayer for today ๐๐ฝ๐๐พ
Dear Father,
Thank You for a brand new day. I ask You to help me keep my eyes on You. When distractions rise and fear tries to overwhelm me, remind me that You are my peace and my strength.
Teach me to trust Your leading even when I cannot see the full path. Fix my heart, mind, and spirit on You so that I may walk in faith and not be shaken. In Jesus' mighty name, Amen ๐๐พ
Every prayer, every act of obedience, and every step of faith matters. Even if you're tired and don't see results yet, God has not forgotten your faithfulness. Keep planting. Keep trusting. At the right time, He will bring the harvest He promised.
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HABAKKUK 2:3
There will come a time when your tears fall, not because of your troubles, but because God has answered your prayers.
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