RuinedOrgasm💋

Feel for his body and muscles tensing, him holding his breath, arching his back or even tensing, all are signs he’s getting very close. Learn to read and understand the signs. Just be sure it’s a libido-building ruined orgasm.💋

If an orgasm does occur after the stimulation is removed, it is not nearly as pleasurable as usual and feels like a “ruined” orgasm as opposed to a “denied” orgasm. A denied orgasm can lead to what’s called “blue balls.”💋

A ruined orgasm is when an individual is taken to peak sexual intensity and on the way to an orgasm, but at the last moment, it’s ruined. There can be elements of sadism or masochism based on the explicit desires of the one receiving the experience.💋

We all have different novelty-seeking traits, and some people need more novelty in order to be aroused. Buy new outfits, try different positions, add new sensations—heat, ice, toys, food, feathers, new fetishes, wax; whatever you want.💋

Ask him to masturbate then make him ruin his own orgasm – this is tough, he’ll be fighting his own urges, but most men endure and do what needs to be done once asked by their queen.💋

Forcing him to swallow his cum is making him do something degrading and humiliating that he wouldn't normally do. If you have tasted his cum, he should taste it too...or what's your opinion?💋

Femdom handjobs are a fun way for a couple to intensify their handjob fun. The tantric style that a femdom handjob deploys can also help a guy hold his orgasm for longer periods of time, leading to increased pleasure.💋

In a ruined orgasm the submissive male hits his peak of pleasure tips just barely over the edge but the violent crash is not triggered. It is not triggered because the expected physical stimulation is absent. Weak muscle contractions struggle to squeeze the cum from his body.💋

Ruining an orgasm is a task that should be not handled lightly, it takes patience, skill, trust, and respect to do it properly. Ruining an orgasm can be hard as the timing can be off and it takes a lot of teasing and a lot of anticipation.💋