Sarah Sloane (She/They)

For friends here that haven’t already heard, my beloved Bal exited stage left last week after a long illness. His other partners and family and I are all feeling his loss, and our whole community is mourning him. Please do an act of kindness in his honor <3

I adulted so hard today. I had my annual physical with newfangled COVID booster, flu shot, STI testing panel, Pap smear, referral for an ultrasound, colonoscopy, and mammogram. I think it's in the best interests of everyone involved if I go to bed early.

I did not think that stress mgmt at age 52 would look like simultaneously watching Roadhouse, eating yogurt w/ homemade compote, and knitting a tam using size 2 needles with a stranded colorwork pattern (w/ 7 colors) with a clock face motif but the numbers are all done in binary.

Teaching a bondage intro class today and due to lack of practice, had to remind myself of a few basic ties. @twistedmonk to the rescue- thanks for the videos (and an assist by some TM hemp rope from a former lover’s collection). Thank you for keeping great resources out there!

The boy took me out to celebrate new day job. I’m buzzed AF on this one Manhattan. I blame it on the glacéd cherries.

EEEEEE! I am so excited for November!

I feel this so hard,

In case you need a smile....youtube.com/watch?v=V9v6esjl…

Last souvenir request from this past trip was me asking my boy to get me a bottle of small batch Irish Cream and a sheep neck pillow. I love having a partner who’s an s-type with a sense of humor and the willingness to play my dom reindeer games.