If she is more obsessed with how she treats you rather than how you treat her, she is a special soul you should look after. Simply put: this is a woman with genuine empathy who really loves you and wants to pour light into you - she isn't just obsessed with how you make her feel.

The most surefire way to ascertain a woman’s love for you is to see if she will break a personal rule for you. As the receptive principle, a woman will bend in the presence of a man she admires. If she will not, then she does not truly admire that man. It is easy to say she can admire a man and still hold steadfast to her principles, in fact to believe and assert that would be very comforting for you, and make you feel as if you successfully undermined, outdone and defeated my assertion, but if you say that I know you are a liar and a point scorer rather than a truth teller, because a woman who puts principle above feeling - especially in matters of true love - is practically unheard of. Her love comes first and foremost above all else, and whatever rules or principles she may hold bend around that. If she finds it easy to impose rules and thus never bends, then for all intent and purpose she is not in love. A super religious woman may be repressed enough in her sexuality and strict enough in her conduct to chain herself up and repeatedly override her desire to yield by redirecting her attention towards God, but that is the only exception I’m willing to grant.

Women are natural extremists, for they are both more loyal, and less loyal than man simultaneously. They are less loyal in the sense they are more easily dissatisfied, and more readily prone to betrayal rather then reconciliation once they feel dissatisfied, but more loyal in the sense that if they revere a man, they truly revere that man, and absolutely nothing bad you can say about him can turn her against him. You could slander him or reveal the very worst secrets about him, and she either wouldn’t believe it, or just straight up wouldn’t care. Nothing you say can damage her view of him. He is the exception to her every rule.

You envy them because they had it easier than you and got to experience comforts and pleasures alien to you. But they envy you because you are greater than them, and you became greater precisely because of what you lacked and endured. So who is the real winner?

The greatest and most enduring joy a woman can know in this life is to share it with a man she genuinely looks up to. Looks fade and children grow up, but reverence for the beauty and greatness of a soul is forever

Those who bite the hand that feeds Should no longer be fed. If you are ungrateful. You can feed yourself And if you starve, then you starve. It is what you deserve.

High truth preference people can't be friends with low truth preference people, because the former even with the best of intentions will inevitably offend the latter, whilst the latter will consistently irritate and annoy the former with their dishonest denials and delusions.

The common female fantasy is that a man far superior to her will choose her because she kept herself relatively unblemished, and then relieve her of all her burdens. She sees her ideal man as a relatively finished product who is the solution to all her problems that uniquely desires her. She is not interested in his becoming, but her own, in the woman she can become through him in how she relates to and experiences herself through him, rather than a primary focus on the man he can become through her. To her, a man is a consolidating principle, he brings everything together for her - that's how she sees him - that's what he is to her. Women who wish to build with a man then are generally superior, for the simple reason they are willing to suffer with him to create something with him, and thereby bind deeper with him because they are invested in him, rather than simply arriving as expectant beneficiaries of all his prior luck and effort - looking to be chosen, and calling that selection a gift, blessing or miracle. They realise that to become part of a man at the deepest level they must not merely reap, but also sow. That they must architect their own becoming through architecting his, by looking to invest in him rather than extract from him and calling that love. It is two very different orientations, and thus ways of looking at men. Most women see men as investors, few see them as investments. Architect tier women are thus the exception, rather than the rule for the very simple reason that greatness is the exception, rather than the rule. Which is why although the vast majority will not find what I say here to be all that relatable, it is in fact - true.

If a man is socially conservative but learns to cook and cook well, and it is not due to some extreme natural passion for the craft or in relation to his vocation, then it is because he does not expect to marry.

Women who hate their fathers want to have fights with every strong man they encounter and think this makes them tough. But real courage would be going balls deep into why you have intimacy, trust and attachment trauma, not being arrogant to random men who have never wronged you.

In life man faces 3 deaths: the 1st death is cowardice, he becomes domesticated and risk averse, but tells himself he's civilized, the 2nd death is to become useless, to produce nothing of value and lose the ability to self-sustain, the final death is apathy - the loss of hope.

Meaningful coincidences such as miracles and synchronicity are acts of God. The more deeply you grasp the universe, the more you see the symbolism of divinity woven into the tapestry of creation. When you are noble and on your purpose, you feel God. Your soul is a divine speck.

Part of subjecting yourself to temptation is to discover secrets about yourself: what you would do under certain conditions, and how that reflects on you. Are you the person you believe you are, or are you only that person when it’s easy for you to be them? The ultimate stubbornness is to be immovable: a person’s beauty protects them from the corrupting temptations that would agonise their conscience and haunt them. To live with a pure heart is thus the greatest defence - a spiritual defence against the perversions that would render this world colourless to you.

Perfection's only actually the aim when you’re really good at something - it is a matter of elegance, mastery, timing, subtle intricacy, symbolism - refinement. When you’re not good, as in, your capacity is so low you're failure prone, then your objective is much simpler: survive.

Deep down women want to be with a man who had a number of women to choose from, but who in the end, due to recognition of some special quality within her, chose her over all others. This is the ultimate validation for the feminine. She quite literally wants to be the chosen one.

You can judge a woman’s femininity by her collarbone. It is vulnerability as an invitation. Pure art. The most erotic thing about her that isn’t explicitly sexual, and yet more sensual than it. It captures his gaze and diverts it towards her neck. She is both clay and marble.