melo✨

Y’all bitches gotta stop letting this generation of men and social media control how y’all live. These niggas will have you thinking you’re not wifey material because you go outside, go to the club, travel, don’t cook every day, don’t jump when they say jump or don’t revolve your entire life around their needs. BITCH, ENJOY YOURSELF! You only get one life to live. These niggas will have you sitting in the house putting your life on pause, waiting on them while they’re outside living their best life, cheating, fucking hoes, partying with their friends and doing whatever the fuck they want. They want you to have no life outside of them while they maintain a whole life outside of you. They’ll make you feel guilty for spending time with your friends while they can be out all night and see absolutely nothing wrong with it. Moral of the story, don’t let nobody convince you that being a good woman means being a prisoner in your own relationship. GO OUTSIDE. Take them trips. Go to the club. Party with your friends. Live your fucking life! Because before you know it, time has passed you by, and you’re sitting there wishing you would’ve done this and that. All because you put your life on hold for a nigga who probably has no intentions of marrying your ass and might not even be stable enough to maintain a marriage. Imagine putting your entire life on pause for a nigga who ain’t even putting a ring on your finger, ain’t building nothing with you, and wouldn’t think twice about living his life without you. Don’t wake up one day regretting all the shit you missed trying to prove you were a good woman to a man who was never trying to be a good man to you.