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I see how it is @darlingstrawbie And I’m going to go even by extension and say that @Rev_says_desu is implicit in this as well. You get rightfully called out for your inappropriate handling of the situation. And that it was completely counter to how a Christian is instructed to handle this. Regardless of the fact that ember lied, you DID owe him a private conversation first to confront him about this. It is explicitly laid out in scripture I’ve cited Mathew 19:15-17 the most as it is the most direct about this. But since you want to hide in your wrongdoing and others want to facilitate it here are other passages that directly state that you were wrong in your handling of this Galatians 6:1: Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such a one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. Luke 17:3–4: Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. Proverbs 25:9–10: Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another: Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away. Proverbs 18:13: He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him. The fact that you have decided to block any who criticize you for your own wrongdoing here, and refuse to address it. I can only take to be that you fully understand your wrongdoing, and deliberately chose to do it anyway. THAT is sinful nature and not following the Christian way. And frankly. I find that more contemptible than the lie that ember told. Why? Because you who are supposedly Christian are held to a different standard than the world. And you willfully refused to adhere to that standard and show grace to someone who had wronged you. You didn’t give them a single opportunity at all to come clean with you and others. You went straight to making it a public humiliation ritual. And as a Christian as you claim to be, that is wrong, and contemptible.