# Go into no contact and focus on your own life. For now, stop trying to contact your ex and turn your attention back to yourself. Return to the hobbies you enjoy. Reconnect with friends and family you may have neglected during the relationship. Start rediscovering the parts of your life that became less important while you were focused on your ex. I know this can be difficult when you're hurting and desperately want another chance. But rather than spending your days trying to get your ex to notice you, give yourself the time and space to rebuild your life. If your ex ever does reconsider the breakup, you won't have spent all that time waiting for them to make a decision. Your best course of action is to leave them alone, respect their boundaries, maintain no contact, and continue moving forward with your life.