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Be deliberate about finding your future wife. Don't try to be lucky in love.
If you were looking for a partner for a business, you wouldn't approach random people on the street hoping to get lucky. You'd be deliberate, purposeful, careful.
So why would you take the process
Ramaphosa appears to be the mastermind people think Zuma is.
The other side of this is perhaps even harder.
Another time you'll meet someone you don't have much chemistry with and it's important to know that's your wife/husband
Atleast once in your lifetime, you'll find someone you have insane chemistry with and it is very important to know you cannot be with them
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The way he looks so happy, he's not beating the allegations that he was sent to destroy the ANC 😂
[WATCH] “Yes, the people have spoken. We accept and respect the will of the people. However, concerning it might be,” says President Cyril Ramaphosa.
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It's one of the reasons women love moving out of their home town - to escape their reputation there.
Or else, to go and wreck their reputation elsewhere and keep it clean at home .
Make sure the mother's history is clean. Make sure she wasn't a hoe or doesn't secretly wish she was a hoe.
Because she will not allow her daughter to make better decisions than she did or she will live her unfulfilled hoe phase through her.
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It's for this reason that I do not subscribe to the ethos that a wife can choose if and when she wants to work or stay home.
She needs to do what needs to be done. If we need her to stay that's what she MUST do. If we need extra income then she MUST go work.
Y'all are so busy keeping score of YOUR sacrifices that you never stopped to ask how many dreams your husbands had to bury just to keep the family standing.
You think a husband driving a truck for 14 hours straight was living his dream?
You think a husband driving Uber and sleeping in his car dreamed of that as a boy?
You think a husband working as a security guard standing for 12 hours dreamed of holding a gate?
You think a husband who is a plumber with his hands in shit dreamed of that life?
You think a husband working in a warehouse lifting boxes until his spine gives out did that for FUN?
NO.
Men had dreams too. Bigger dreams than yours.
He wanted to be a pilot. A footballer. A businessman. A musician. He had plans.
But then life punched him in the mouth. Woman got pregnant. Rent doubled. Mother got sick. Bills piled up.
So he KILLED his dream with his own hands and went to work.
No announcement. No tears on Instagram. No TED Talk.
And when he dies at 58 from heart attack, high blood pressure, stroke from years of stress and silence
You will stand at his funeral and say "he was a good provider."
Not a dreamer.
Not a man who once wanted more.
Not a soul who sacrificed everything.
Just a provider.
That's all he will ever be to you. Shut up.
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