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Lead engineer. Distilling 100+ personal development books and years of leading projects into one simple system for engineering your life.

Joined March 2021
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The thing blocking you is a rule you never voted on. You say to yourself: I'm not someone who follows through. It reads like a description. It works like an instruction. So you skip the fourth day. Quietly. And the rule survives another year. Beliefs are tools - not truths. Most of us inherited a toolbox and never checked inside. Write the sentence down. Ask: Does this belief serve me? If yes, keep it. If no, then write the one you'd need for the next six months. Prove it in public.
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Most plans are a way to avoid one sentence you don't want to say out loud. It's the next course, the new app, the restructured week. All of it sits on top of the same thing. Write that sentence down. Then do the smallest thing it asks for today.
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One task decides your whole week. It never sends a notification. You answer messages. You clean the backlog. You rebuild the planner. The week ends and nothing moved. A hundred small things done feel better than one avoided thing touched. Feel better is not the same as move. Find the task that decides. Give it the morning.
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You are not tired from the work. You are tired from carrying it. Twenty unfinished things, each with a light on. The email you haven't answered. The conversation you keep postponing. The project you buried under three others. None of them take an hour. They take a tenth of your attention, all day. Write them down. One line each. You can't close them all today. You can stop holding them in your head. Relief comes before results.
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Replying to @donhornsby @garyvee
Without it you might be just a robot
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Yes and it can give you so much
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Replying to @garyvee
Be kind and you shall receive kindness.
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Replying to @Jayyanginspires
Substack is a good one
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It can give you good ideas.
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Replying to @Tim_Denning
Exactly. And you can easily remove these limitations one by one.
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Preparing always comes before the step you're avoiding. You proofread once more. You adjust the plan. You read one article that might help. None of this moves you closer to your goal. Readiness is not required. You get ready by doing what you know needs to be done.
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Spider-Man’s uncle: With great power comes great responsibility. Me: With great responsibility comes great power.
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Replying to @thejustinwelsh
Exactly, be true to yourself and you will find the correct people.
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Replying to @dickiebush
You don’t see the world. You see the world you focus on. That’s why if you focus on the correct things, your life improves.
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You don't lack time. You lack a target. A full day with no aim feels exactly like an empty one. Same hours. Same tiredness at nine. Nothing to show. Write the one thing that would make this week count. Not five things. One. Then put two hours against it in the calendar. A direction without a booked hour is a wish. Two defended hours beat a beautifully organised week aimed at nothing.
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Vitamins are good for improving health and state. However what mostly stops us from achieving our goals is fear. Here's example how it only took 2 minutes to stop my negative thinking loop. teapaw.org/TheDiffpath/status/211…
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