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engaging with the stupid discourse tweets sorry but while emil is an adult, and is shown to make his own decisions, to a degree he cannot be trusted with his own autonomy (especially at the end of his life) due to his mental illness and pointing that out isn’t inherently ableism.

fall under the care of someone without his interests in mind, it would be so much worse for him (as we see in wssa). ada guiding him with love despite her rougher edges is beautiful and i think it’s why their relationship is tragically beautiful rather than a warning of toxicity.

they both put each others happiness before all else, which leads them to not think about themselves or how that mindset is affecting both of them. emil sees no point if ada is not happy with her work and with him, and wants to help her however necessary.

ada is refusing to accept that mindset because she focuses on the progress in his mental capacity and the developments in their relationship. in the time he has left, emil’s priorities are fully about his love for ada and making sure she’s happy and comfortable while together +

[#adamil thread] something i find severely overlooked in conversations about adamil’s toxicity and about the nature of emil’s consent is the fact that he will do and permit anything as long as it’s ada who asks it of him his intro quote is literally just “only if she wishes it”