OB/GYN. Researcher. Philomath. Ambivert. Audiophile. Sports lover. Tech head.
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Nothing happened to him.
He's who he's always been. A covering defender and all that it comes with.
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Rara Avis™ retweeted
The longer I practice medicine, the more I realize how quickly life can change. We are all one phone call, one diagnosis from a different life.
Rara Avis™ retweeted
This is well said. The reason I said infidelity is always the fault of both parties is that, after a decade of coaching clients, thousands of couples I spoke with complained about the same main issues:
Women reach menopause and no longer want sex, or even younger women who get their ring and security and stop having interest in sex.
It’s a well-known statistic that women in long-term relationships have less interest in sex. It’s not fair.
I know of so many couples that had sex only 1–2 times a year! And when the man cheats, he is labeled the worst.
I think a man who has sex withdrawn from the marriage has the right to cheat. You don’t always want to go through a painful divorce and years of battle.
You might as well enjoy sex elsewhere and still be a good companion or a “roommate” for your partner.
There were also cases when the man lost interest in his wife, but that was extremely rare.
A wife doesn’t get to decide, quietly and unilaterally, that the sexual marriage is over while expecting every other part of the arrangement to continue indefinitely without discussion.
She doesn’t get to turn her husband into a roommate, provider, co-parent, handyman, emotional support system, social escort, family representative, and faithful companion while treating his desire for his own wife as some embarrassing character flaw he needs to outgrow.
Rara Avis™ retweeted
Unpopular opinion about babes like this is that, a lot of them tend to have a lot of character flaw and it stems from the fact that they know they are physically all that.
Rara Avis™ retweeted
I feel bad for single and searching people in all of these. These fixed mindsets have made people so guarded and defensive.
I insist there are good people, men and women; may God help you not to miss them when they come around.
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My therapist explained it as anytime you’re unsure/indecisive/nervous about a choice that’s pretty much you in disagreement with yourself so how could you possibly NEVER disagree with a partner?
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Okay i have something to say, I think all this relationship content has fried ppl brains about compatibility, you can be with your most compatible person and you will still disagree on things, have arguments and have conflicts. Thee internet is largely simplifying compatibility
It's sadly the way of the internet.
They'll end up abusing and misunderstanding everything.
A crazy circus.
Okay i have something to say, I think all this relationship content has fried ppl brains about compatibility, you can be with your most compatible person and you will still disagree on things, have arguments and have conflicts. Thee internet is largely simplifying compatibility
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