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you have to be mature enough to recognize that you have toxic traits too. it's not always the other person.

I like this, but I think there’s a fourth option people overlook: Sometimes you can’t change the situation or leave it, but you can change the meaning you give it and how you choose to respond to it

I release you with finality. No reunion. No reconciliation. My future doesn’t include you.

I'm very obsessed with ease. Once something starts to feel unnecessarily hard, I start mentally checking out.

Act like you never knew them once they show their true colors. That’s the safest move.

Soft spot got me in trouble too many times. Cutting that off for good now.

i can recognize the way i love people. i still struggle to recognize when i'm being loved.

Betrayal hit different when you was all in. I don’t know why people act like it don’t mess you up long term.

i always want an explanation, even when i know it won't bring me peace.

I ain’t perfect, got scars from loving wrong, but my heart still pure and open to the right one.

you know your heart is genuine when doing what's best for yourself still comes with guilt.

i genuinely believe one day i'll wake up to a life i used to pray for.

you kinda have to be very direct with overthinkers. their mind will create 10 different meanings from one unclear sentence.

I reject the spirit of people-pleasing and over-responsibility. My peace is my responsibility.

i can lose everything and still believe i'll be okay. i thank God for that.

once you use my insecurities as jokes or weaponize things i've overcome against me, don't be surprised by the version of me you meet after that.

Sometimes the best prayer is “Lord, help me not become what hurt me.”

I think one of my biggest flaws is that i really do like people for who they are. 😭

the second you get defensive instead of curious, the conversation is already over.

i need female friends with a strong sense of self. if every conversation, decision and mood revolves around men, we probably won’t have much in common.