❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
Y’all do not like yourselves. That’s why everybody gotta come back to the office, you can’t go eat lunch or the movies alone, and your SO can’t go anywhere without you. You’re a loser and you know it, but you’ve decided to make it everyone else’s problem
❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
i know i’m never on here anymore, but anyway this was me in guatemala for my 36th birthday last month. 🐏
❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
A lot of you are missing the critical thinking skills that academic rigor in a social science field would have provided for you
❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
I don't have no get back for a weirdo. life eating you up. your mind eating you up. i don't have to do sht but keep being me.
❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
When a woman says she's expecting emotional security from her partner, this is what she actually means.
I didn’t call my husband crying.
I called him angry.
It was 11:47 PM. I was sitting on the kitchen floor, laptop open, staring at an email that said my contract wasn’t being renewed. Just like that. Two years of overtime, weekends, skipped holidays — gone in one paragraph.
When he answered, I didn’t even say hello.
“I lost my job.”
Silence. Not the awkward kind. The steady kind.
He said, “Okay. I’m coming home.”
He was on a night shift. I told him not to. I said I didn’t want him to risk it. I said I was fine.
He said, “You’re not.”
Twenty minutes later, I heard the door.
He didn’t try to fix it. Didn’t start giving solutions. Didn’t say, “You’ll find something better.” Didn’t minimize it.
He just sat on the floor with me.
He ordered food because he knew I hadn’t eaten. He closed my laptop because he knew I’d keep rereading the email. He made a list the next morning not of jobs for me but of bills he could cover alone “for as long as it takes.”
The next week, I found out he had quietly moved money from his personal savings into our joint account.
Not because I asked.
Because he anticipated.
Months later, when I apologized for being “a burden,” he looked genuinely confused.
“We’re married,” he said. “There is no yours and mine when things fall apart. There’s just us.”
That’s when I understood something about marriage.
It’s not about who plans the best anniversary or posts the sweetest captions.
It’s about who sits on the kitchen floor with you when your world collapses.
It’s about who absorbs your panic without adding their own.
It’s about who turns “your problem” into “our plan.”
Marriage isn’t loud.
It’s steady.
And when it’s real, you don’t have to beg someone to show up.
They already grabbed their keys.
❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
I seen a post that said “SOMETIMES GOD PUTS YOU IN PLACES ALONE, BECAUSE HE NEEDS YOU TO REALIZE YOU DO NOT NEED ANYBODY BUT HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!” & I feel that so bad 😩.
❤️🔥Lu 🇭🇹 retweeted
No one talks enough about how exhausting it is to continuously be the one who “gives grace”. In a lot of instances, you’re giving grace at the expense of putting someone else’s needs before your own.



























