one of the easiest ways to misunderstand a person is to assume they experience the world the way you do. people can witness the same behavior, hear the same words, and attach completely different meanings to them.
throwing everything you’ve ever done for your child in their face every time you’re mad at them is some nasty work and you are a shitty ass parent if you make your own child feel indebted to you for simply raising them
one thing that fascinates me about this country is how easily people can recognize oppression when it comes from someone they dislike, yet defend the same behavior when it comes from someone they identify with.
throwing everything you’ve ever done for your child in their face every time you’re mad at them is some nasty work and you are a shitty ass parent if you make your own child feel indebted to you for simply raising them
i’m such a sweet girl when I feel genuinely loved. I’ll pour into you, hype you up, spoil you, pray for you, and make you feel like the luckiest man alive
