I’m 36, and my wife is 28. We’ve been married for 5 years with two kids, aged 4 and 2. A few months ago, she went on a weekend trip with her college friends. Since she returned, she’s been acting differently. She buys new clothes, goes out more, spends more time on her phone, and says she feels like she has lost herself in marriage and motherhood. She’s also become less affectionate towards me. When I ask what’s wrong, she says I’m making her feel guilty for wanting a life outside our marriage. I eventually asked if something happened on the trip. She admitted she spent time with a group of people that included single men, but insists nothing happened. She says the trip reminded her of the freedom and spontaneity she had before marriage.