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Instead of taking accountability, they’re angry thag Nigerian men are supporting the white men calling out their bs.
Make i dey defend rubbish cos we share the same nationality?? If white men organize protest tomorrow, I go join. Go and fix that disgusting behavior!
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He loses his voice on virtually every issue in the country until effeminate men get attacked.
He probably thinks he made sense at any point in those asinine paragraphs.
This Eni oluwa boy, we have always known the kind of person you are. When you and Priscilla were together, I genuinely thought you two would eventually get married. But she got married and moved on. Perhaps she saw the red flags and decided she couldn’t continue with you.
Till today, you haven’t changed. From wearing lipstick to the way you present yourself, you keep giving people reasons to question your sexuality. If you’re comfortable with how you choose to express yourself, that’s your business, but don’t expect people not to have opinions.
You need to reflect on your life and the direction you’re heading. Better repent o, because the way things are going, pity you. Take it or leave it.
People that are mentally ill
There’s a serious attack on masculinity in Nigeria! 😭
I just saw a compilation of male outfits from a fashion show & Omo, it’s becoming alarming o!😩
Men in dresses, wigs, clutches….??😭
Expressive fashion they say!! But why does everything have to look feminine???
Men don’t have their own fashion ni?? 😭
At this point, na to dey pray: May our boys be boys & our girls be girls. 😭
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Marriage doesn’t cure the foolishness of a man. A foolish man who got married, still remains a foolish man.
This man called me aside one evening and said he wanted to give me some advice about marriage. I was excited because the man had been married for almost 15 years. I thought I was about to receive some valuable wisdom.
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Nothing concern this one till dem dey drag effeminate men.
Eni Aijiri
It’s interesting how people attend fashion shows, pick out videos of men dressed a certain way, put them together, and suddenly the conversation becomes, “We are losing our men.”
Meanwhile, that same fashion show has plenty of men wearing regular shirts and trousers, but those videos rarely get the same attention.
It is a FASHION SHOW. A FASHION SHOW! Nobody is losing anything.
If you want to see men who fit your definition of “masculinity,” go to a stadium on a Saturday, visit the gym near your house, and have a field day.
We really need to be more mindful of the narratives we push, especially when we know, and have seen, how these narratives can put people’s lives and safety at risk.
There are things we all dislike or disagree with about other people, but that doesn’t give us the right to ridicule them or encourage hostility towards them.
You have a platform. Use it responsibly.
Leave people alone!❤️
A lot of you are psychopaths
Small digging on your socials & here we are
Why is there a Gentleman in EU too who happened to like the only photo your son’s in?
Is there a resemblance? Might be circumstantial, know what isn’t? Hoe Markers, Tattoos, Nose Ring, 1000 Dick stare. Ever seen a Virgin married wife with a Tattoo nose ring or RIB face?
Your tattoos appeared 2021 1st pregnancy, by 2024 when your son arrived their all over. What does this mean? Your being ran through in Airbnbs, billing guys & dumped while married.
Scripture warns us Prov 30:20: The adulterous lady eats, wipes her mouth, says she has done nothing wrong
At 33, 2 kids not resembling their Father? You come online as a failed wife without shame disrespecting his genes? May Someone in Coventry do DNA 🧬 & talk sense to your Husband Afenkhide, he deserves better…
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You lack discernment and your comprehension skill is wholly flawed.
Caption: Date a UK man that believes in sharing bills equally or dance.
They chose to dance, which means they do not want to split bills.
You’re here saying they might contribute higher.
E gor gan oo 😂😂
Here are the people who deserve monthly allowance:
1. Your working class wife that you turned into a full time housewife after marrying her.
2. Your aged parents.
3. Your children in boarding schools, tertiary institutions, and fresh graduates.
Let’s do things rightly,pls 🤲🏼
On Monthly Allowance.
I'm not even against it. You would know if you've seen my tweet from the past. It is how you people frame it and talk about it, that is disgusting. There is no aspect of love that is gendered because love is not a masculine responsibility, it is a lover's duty. Whether you're a man or woman is frankly, irrelevant.
If your partner loses their job and you're earning N200k. You could decide to give them N50k monthly till they get back on their feet. You have other responsibilities but they have become primary.
If you earn a lot more than your partner. N4m to N250k. You could decide to put them on N250k or whatever, monthly, to supplement their income due to the extant economic reality. Once you see your money as "our money" love is easy. You want to see your partner happy and in a good place.
Understand that while doing either of these, you're still both invested in each other and building a home together in love and togetherness. The problem with the "monthly allowance discourse on the TL" is that it revolves around vagina entitlement. You think you deserve it just because you're a woman or because you think you 'give him sex.' Some of you are in same tax bracket as your man or even earn higher and still feel entitled to monthly allowance. Are you an armed robber?
You cannot claim to love anyone and put them in dis-ease. How are you comfortable collecting monthly allowance from someone that earns same as you while carrying more responsibilities than you? You don't love them. The first principle of love is kindness. You must put your partner's best interest upfront.
Having said this, I totally understand people who are against it because it could lead to entitlement. Look at you people that haven't even started collecting it, and you feel very entitled to it. Interestingly, same you that claim you deserve it, have sworn you cannot do it for your man. Are you not a witch? It is gross hypocrisy to demand love you cannot give. Love is for lovers. You only deserve the love you give.
Many of you don't deserve shit. You tweet shit for clout and validation, and to esteem yourself highly in the eyes of potential mates. But when vagina is your only premise for deserving an allowance, you make it obvious to the gallery that you're nothing more than a hors d'oeuvre to the vagina hunters.
For here, dem be expatriate. For their side, you be immigrant.
She’s so right!
I have a real problem with white people who move to Nigeria and convince themselves Nigerians worship them. You genuinely think Nigerians believe you're smarter than them? 😂 Nigerians have enough confidence in their own intelligence to let you believe whatever nonsense makes you feel important. They'll flatter your ego, tell you exactly what you want to hear and have you convinced you're royalty. Meanwhile, na you be the only mumu for the room wey no know say dem dey play you. That's the funniest part.
Imagine writing essays about Nigerian intellectual inferiority while being the easiest person in Nigeria to manipulate. The irony is fucking spectacular.
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Women don’t know how to pretend; you will clearly see that she doesn’t fw you.
No connection between you two in one month and you still think she’s interested in you? If there’s no connection in a week, just move on. Save yourself this kind of embarrassment.
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Now you understand that access doesn’t automatically make you a member of the squad right? Welcome to real life!
Omo!!! But rich people in Lagos daju gan ooo 😂😂😂 if they see you as a struggling person desperate to be associated with them, they will first whine you by inviting you to their house, call you their friend, take you with them for outings, introduce you to their friends
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Lmao, if you know wetin she use Wizkid eye see, you no go talk this kind thing.
Smart woman una 😂😂
A very smart woman
She didn’t waste her time by waiting for Wizkid to come and marry her, she moved on with her own life and married someone else straight up
You can never see where she’s fighting Wizkid’s wife or shading her online
You will never see her denying Wizkid access to his son or constituting nuisance online that wizkid is not sending money for his son’s care
She just focus on her life and enjoying her own marriage peacefully
I really like her
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