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The lineup of upcoming podcast guests:
- Andy Weir, Project Hail Mary
- Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl
- Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club
- Michael Lewis, Moneyball
- Jodi Picoult, Small Great Things
- Jill Lepore, These Truths
- Elif Shafak, There are Rivers in the Sky
- Robert Macfarlane, Is a River Alive?
- Harlan Coben, Fool Me Once
- Michael Arndt, Star Wars: The Force Awakens
- Mark Normand, comedian
- Nihar Malaviya, CEO of Penguin Random House
For any of these writers, if there are questions you'd like me to ask, drop them in the replies.
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Search is full of ads and wrong answers. Every other email is an ad. Prime Video charges you and shows ads. Paramount? Ads. Peacock? YouTube? Hulu? Ads followed by more ads. Netflix full of ads. Meta and X, every other thing is an ad. Pinterest is nothing but ads. AI is in everything. AI finishes sentences incorrectly and won’t stop. AI reads your email and search history to target you with more ads. Every time you open an app or visit a site there’s an update making it worse. In a hurry? First, click here to agree to terms you don’t have time to read and must accept. You need an account to do that. Change your temporary password. Enter your 2FA code. Check your email and enter that code. Now use a passkey. Your password is too simple to remember. Change it. No, not like that. Now log on. Enter your 2FA code. Check your email for a code… Welcome back! We’ve updated our terms of service and privacy policy (you have none). Subscribe to the site. Subscribe to Netflix. Subscribe to toilet paper. Subscribe to these groceries. Pay a membership fee for the right to subscribe then tip your driver who delivers the subscriptions your membership lets you subscribe to. Time to work? We’ve got to update your laptop and will slow down everything you do until you agree to update. But first, click here to agree. Update installed — your laptop’s broken now. It doesn’t matter, since your boss just replaced you with AI. Go to your phone to complain on social media. Wait, your phone needs an update so we can add more AI. Click here. Oh sorry, your phone can’t handle this update. Now it’s useless. Go get the newest phone. Here’s a text from a friend, an email, a voice mail they left three days ago but you didn’t see until now because of sync problems with the cloud. It’s their GoFundMe. Their MLM. Their Patreon. Never mind, you didn’t respond to their text within 9 minutes and now you’re no longer friends. They blocked you. Make new friends. Download this app to find people in your area. In your neighborhood. On your street. Two doors down from you. Do you know this person yet, we think you’d get along. You need an account to use this app. That username is taken. Enter a password. Not that one, you used it on another site. You need to be connected to WiFi to download the app. Allow the app to connect to other devices on your network. Allow the app to access your contacts, know your precise location, store your credit card details. Oops, sorry, we got hacked now all that info is available on the web. There’s a class action suit. You can join. It’ll take a decade to get your $3.73 share of the ten billion settlement. We’ll send it via PayPal or deposit it to your bank, just tell us those details. Oh no, another hack. That info is circulating now, too. Here’s a spam call, a spam email, a spam text. Why are you angry? Why are you talking about getting rid of your phone? Why don’t you like AI, it lets us make all of this easier? Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? This is progress. You’ll be left behind. Do you want to be left behind? Do you???
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Anne Lamott is the queen of writing teachers. Ask 100 writers for their favorite book about the craft, and her book, Bird by Bird, will top the list.
Everybody who's tried to make a work of art knows how loud the inner critic can be. When struggle comes, most people try harder. But Anne says: "The point is not to try harder; it's to resist life less."
Improving as a writer is about becoming more aware and paying closer attention to what's already around you, and this conversation is about how to do that.
It centers around her famous writing advice: “Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.”
Timestamps:
0:39 Bird by Bird
2:17 Why writer's block isn't real
3:36 The problem with trying harder
9:06 Every book has three drafts
14:24 Learning to observe the world
15:58 Facing your inner critic
27:59 "Help, thanks, wow"
31:16 You get three pages
35:51 Revenge = fuel
38:26 Anne's #1 writing prompt
48:53 Finding writing ideas
54:57 Writing lessons from movies
1:02:08 The ABDCE storytelling formula
1:05:37 What makes for a good ending?
1:10:57 Dealing with criticism
1:16:28 Writing to be fully alive
I've shared the full conversation with Anne Lamott below. If you'd prefer to watch it, I've published it on YouTube, and you also can listen to it on Apple / Spotify. I've shared those links in the reply tweets.
This is one of those bucket list interviews I've wanted to do ever since I started How I Write, and I hope you enjoy our conversation.
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I have one sponsorship spot left for my show!
The ideal partner wants to work together long-term and get consistent exposure to an insanely high-value audience (57% say they make purchasing decisions for their company, and 34% are current, former, or aspiring startup founders).
The show continues to grow like crazy (watch time is up 256% year-over-year!)
If you’re interested, email me at [email protected].
How I Write has hit the exponential growth curve, so it's time to start having sponsors.
A few of our recent episodes have hit more than 100,000 views on YouTube and the guest quality is still on the up-and-up.
If you want to sponsor it, shoot me an email: [email protected]
What's unique about How I Write is the kinds of people you'd reach. To the best of my knowledge, it's the world's largest writing-focused interview show and it obviously attracts people who are serious about the craft of writing. If that's your jam, reach out to me!
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How I Write's been on an exponential growth curve over the past few months, which has me thinking about where to take the show.
Instead of riffing on these things solo, I want to hear from you. So I've created a place where you can tell me how you want How I Write to evolve.
Who should I interview? Should I focus on tactical interviews or philosophical ones?
My team and I are meeting next week to jam on what's next, and if you want to have a say in that conversation, this is the best way to do that.
Here's the link: form.typeform.com/to/cnu5gUq…
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THE BIG REGRESSION
My folks are in town visiting us for a couple months so we rented them a house nearby.
It’s new construction. No one has lived in it yet. It’s amped up with state of the art systems. The ones with touchscreens of various sizes, IoT appliances, and interfaces that try too hard.
And it’s terrible. What a regression.
The lights are powered by Control4. And require a demo to understand how to use the switches, understand which ones control what, and to be sure not to hit THAT ONE because it’ll turn off all the lights in the house when you didn’t mean to. Worse.
The TV is the latest Samsung which has a baffling UI just to watch CNN. My parents aren’t idiots, but definitely feel like they’re missing something obvious. They aren’t — TVs have simply gotten worse. You don’t turn them on anymore, you boot them up.
The Miele dishwasher is hidden flush with the counters. That part is fine, but here’s what isn’t: It wouldn’t even operate the first time without connecting it to an app. This meant another call to the house manager to have them install an app they didn’t know they needed either. An app to clean some peanut butter off a plate? For serious? Worse.
Thermostats... Nest would have been an upgrade, but these other propriety ones from some other company trying to be nest-like are baffling. Round touchscreens that take you into a dark labyrinth of options just to be sure it’s set at 68. Or is it 68 now? Or is that what we want it at, but it’s at 72? Wait... What? Which number is this? Worse.
The alarm system is essentially a 10” iPad bolted to the wall that has the fucking weather forecast on it. And it’s bright! I’m sure there’s a way to turn that off, but then the screen would be so barren that it would be filled with the news instead. Why can’t the alarm panel just be an alarm panel? Worse.
And the lag. Lag everywhere. Everything feels a beat or two behind. Everything. Lag is the giveaway that the system is working too hard for too little. Real-time must be the hardest problem.
Now look... I’m no luddite. But this experience is close to conversion therapy. Tech can make things better, but I simply can’t see in these cases. I’ve heard the pitches too — you can set up scenes and one button can change EVERYTHING. Not buying it. It actually feels primitive, like we haven’t figured out how to make things easy yet. That some breakthrough will eventually come when you can simply knock a switch up or down and it’ll all makes sense. But that's at least 20 years down the road.
It’s really the contrast that makes it alarming. We just got back from a vacation in Montana. Rented a house there. They did have a fancy TV — seems those can’t be avoided these days — but everything else was old school and clear. Physical up/down light switches in the right places. Appliances without the internet. Buttons with depth and physically-confirmed state change rather than surfaces that don’t obviously register your choice. More traditional round rotating Honeywell thermostats that are just clear and obvious. No tours, no instructions, no questions, no fearing you’re going to do something wrong, no wondering how something works. Useful and universally clear. That’s human, that’s modern.
Feels like a good time to resurface this
An absolutely unreal story. Pat didn't play competitive basketball for FIVE YEARS - he was busy being one of the best college lacrosse players in history. Decides to go back to basketball, five years later he drops 17 points in a fucking NBA game. Almost impossible to comprehend
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This question sets us off on the wrong path. Being human is the thing itself, but we seem hellbent on relinquishing depth of experience for the hollow promise of efficiency, productivity, safety, ease, etc.
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Update: We've brought on a few killer sponsors and are looking for one last one to fill our roster. How I Write continues to grow, and we have some insane guests lined up in the coming months.
Send me an email or DM if you think there’s a fit.
[email protected]
How I Write has hit the exponential growth curve, so it's time to start having sponsors.
A few of our recent episodes have hit more than 100,000 views on YouTube and the guest quality is still on the up-and-up.
If you want to sponsor it, shoot me an email: [email protected]
What's unique about How I Write is the kinds of people you'd reach. To the best of my knowledge, it's the world's largest writing-focused interview show and it obviously attracts people who are serious about the craft of writing. If that's your jam, reach out to me!
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I’ve made a short film.
Look at the things around you: doors, bins, staircases, furniture, railings, doorhandles, windows.
Do you like how they look, or not?
Modern design has become boring, but it doesn’t have to be this way.
The word “beautiful” is overused. We don’t need “beautiful” lamps, bus stops, and water fountains – we just need lamps, bus stops, and water fountains that are interesting, that actually mean something.
Or, at the very least, not boring.
Because the aesthetics of architecture and urban design aren’t just a bonus; they totally change how we think, feel, and behave.
Boring environments make us more stressed and less productive; they erode our sense of community; they make us sadder, less trusting, and lonelier.
A boring world is one where we spend even more time online and where our addictions are even harder to battle.
The Problem
There is global, widespread dissatisfaction with how the world looks. In this film, and the series it will lead to, we want to investigate that feeling and give it a voice.
The point isn’t that we should return to the past or get rid of modernism. It’s about learning from the past in order to improve the present, and about giving the public what they very clearly want, which isn’t the eradication of modernism but the co-existence of modernism AND traditionalism.
Just look where tourists go, where they take their photos, and that tells you everything you need to know about what most people find interesting or beautiful.
And look at where people go on holiday. It’s always to cities filled with old architecture and design, with churches and mosques and palaces, with charming little alleyways and stone staircases and wrought-iron railings.
Of the world’s fifty most visited buildings, only four were made in the 20th century, and they’re all museums or memorials.
There’s a reason why posts about this go viral online all the time. Regardless of why the change happened, it is clearly the case that we no longer make things how we used to.
People are rightly confused by the fact that old lamp posts (to take the example we focus on in the film) are usually so pretty, while modern ones are usually so boring.
Some people say this is just an example of survivorship bias… and they’re mostly correct. But that’s the whole point!
Saying old buildings are usually prettier than modern buildings is not to say that architecture used to be better, or that the past was better.
It is simply to say that certain kinds of buildings, because they have been preserved, are good examples of what people like most.
In which case... shouldn't we try to design at least some buildings in a way that we know people like?
A Unifying Cause
Everybody, from all sides of the political spectrum and all backgrounds, stands to benefit from a world that is designed more thoughtfully and imaginatively. The world could be such a colourful, meaningful, and thrilling place!
So this isn’t about left versus right or conservatism versus progressivism; it’s about making our world a more interesting and meaningful place to live in. This should be a unifying cause, because everybody loses out when our homes and cities are badly designed.
I want this film to unite people who think they’re on opposite sides, and to create a consensus that we need to change our approach to how we design our buildings and the objects – benches, bus stops, bins, lamp posts, aircon units – that fill our cities.
The Importance of Details
We are incredibly rich and have a sprawling choice of shows to stream, phones to buy, or shoes to wear… but everything feels more and more generic all the time.
If you want to understand a society, don’t listen to what it says about itself – look at what it creates. You can learn everything about the Victorians – the good and the bad – just by looking at their lamp posts.
And what do the ordinary details of the modern world say about us?
That we are technologically advanced, very efficient… and care more about making money, about making things as quickly and cheaply as possible, than making our world an enjoyable place to actually live in.
It’s important to learn about why and how things have changed, but that’s for another time. The first step is establishing that the public aren’t happy with modern architecture and design, and that something needs to be done.
But what we need isn’t a total revival of so-called ‘traditionalism’; the truth is that traditionalism and modernism can (and should) co-exist.
The trouble right now is that we only have one, and that people are tired of it.
The Power of Noticing
But this film (and the series it will, all being well, lead to) is about more than the specific argument it presents. Above all it’s about a way of seeing the world around us, a way of noticing and thinking.
“How you do anything is how you do everything.” That is probably true, and it also applies to whole societies, not just individuals; a single doorbell implies everything else about the whole socio-economic and political system that gave rise to its creation.
And, beyond being merely “useful”, the ability to notice details makes the world a richer place to live in, and life a richer thing to lead. This is what the film is about, more than anything: the power and joy of noticing.
A Bigger Project
This short film is just the beginning. We want to make a full series about the history of art and architecture, both for their own sake and also to see what we can learn about life in the twenty-first century and how to improve it. To keep updated you can join our email list over at our website, linked in the reply below.
Final Words
You can watch the film here on X, or over on YouTube, also linked in the reply below.
So… this is where the dream begins, the dream of a new series and the dream of a more charming, more interesting, more meaningful modern world.
Spread the word.
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I truly believe this lack of structural friction when it comes to basically every type of dopamine-frying pleasure on earth is a huge part of why gen z is Like That
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There’s a population of talented creatives who are unheard of because they understand things past the confidence threshold (after which the more you know the more you realize you don’t know about it) so the only people talking and writing about a subject are the loud, confident, commercially driven individuals who only know half (or less) about the thing.
It’s not that the lightning-in-a-bottle creative doesn’t want to make money or are too bohemian, edgy, or dumb to figure out a way to do so, it’s that they know that the thing their talent is geared towards, in its entirety, is so grand and beautiful that to try to put any of it into human language feels impossible, and to dumb it down or democratize it in anyway feels blasphemous. It’s not that they believe capitalism is bad or whatever but because any attempt to put what they understand into a marketable, public, perceivable form hurts their soul knowing it won’t be even damn close to the truth
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How I Write has hit the exponential growth curve, so it's time to start having sponsors.
A few of our recent episodes have hit more than 100,000 views on YouTube and the guest quality is still on the up-and-up.
If you want to sponsor it, shoot me an email: [email protected]
What's unique about How I Write is the kinds of people you'd reach. To the best of my knowledge, it's the world's largest writing-focused interview show and it obviously attracts people who are serious about the craft of writing. If that's your jam, reach out to me!
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A quick shout out to @PaulRabil of the @PremierLacrosse about the @PLLCannons. After a recent match, we made our way to a favorite restaurant near closing; it was empty except for a table of young men. One of them, @MarcusHolman1, called out to my son (a @ResoluteLAX team member), "Nice Jersey!" (He had just purchased it at the game to replace the blue one Marcus autographed a couple of years back). Over the next few moments, those at the table invited Blyden to join them, and each signed his new purchase. @ChefBoy_RD_ (Ryan Drenner), @ZacTucci, @asher_nolting, Matt Campbell, Colin Kirst, Connor Kirst, Mic Kelly, and Alexander Vardaro created for him a moment he will NEVER forget. Their infectious graciousness and motivational demeanor will last equally as long. Paul, this is how role models should roll, and a small reason your league is exploding. All the absolute BEST!
Lawrence has been one of my favorite writers since I discovered the world of online blogs. I devoured all of his pieces in like, a night. This is going to be spectacular.
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Have gotten comments from gen z questioning the point of the American greeting ritual. I used to feel the same way in my first service jobs. I thought it was "fake," performative, extractive, "emotional labor" (though we didn't have that phrase). Here's how I changed my mind
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It took me a long, slow time to put together that "putting one another at ease" is the collective project of a society, and that everyone has their part to play. And when it comes from a place of mutual generosity, it really does feel good. It allows for real connection
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Ezra Klein: Writers who outsource their research to AI operate on a flawed model of how the mind works.




























