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I only go for women that like me first.
I don't care if they are just 5 or even less of such women in the whole universe.
You will come to a phase in your life that you will discover that one solid genuine relationship worth more than all these "you look like a triangle, are you Bermuda?"
It becomes genuine romance Vs notch counts. Cos it's notch counts that normally turns men into Shakespeare, Nietzsche, Newton, Einstein, and Elon Musk all at once.
For me, I'm too rational or say nonchalant (but I know you PUAs will say I'm scared of rejection. Lack confidence. Scarcity mindset et al., Ok you won) to start persuading or convincing a woman why she should like me. Don't have the time for such "how to win friends and influence people."
Kudos to the rest of you.
It is the ones that are breaking 2+ years relationship because "my parents said I can't marry from this tribe or religion...and I want father's blessings" that irritates me the most.
If you can't take decision on your choice of partner, how are you even going to lead and sustain a family of at least 4 persons?
I have addressed this topic before, but I will shed more light on it again.
You must learn how to disappoint and disobey your parents very early in life.
My life changed for good the first time my father told me he was disappointed in me. I was so happy because he had no idea how badly I had looked forward to hearing those words from him. I didn’t do anything bad. I just started living life in a way that made sense to me, and some of my new values bothered him, especially because I’m from a veryyy religious home.
Mind you, he didn’t have a problem with those things. It was basically about “what will people say?”
People I don’t give a flying fvck about, by the way.
I was particularly happy because I had spent my teenage years pleasing them and never wanted to do anything that would disappoint them.
Here’s the thing: they’ll eventually get used to the new programme and adjust.
Let me burst your bubbles. It got to a point where my parents told me they weren’t comfortable with me going to the gym and that I should stop. They asked why I couldn’t devote the time I spent at the gym to the church instead. I made it VERY clear to them that if they EVER said anything negative about me going to the gym again, they’d never hear from me again, and I was déadass.
Now, when my mum calls me, she asks if I’ve been to the gym that day yet.
The freedom you want from your parents comes from rebellion. You just have to make sure that, while at it, you aren’t a nuisance to society or an embarrassment to your family in the literal sense of the word.
They won’t approve of your piercings, tattoos, having a boyfriend or girlfriend, living alone, keeping dreads, tinting your hair, etc., but if it makes you happy, do it anyway. I promise you, they’ll be fine, and they’ll eventually come back to compliment the very things they once criticised.
They do not have a problem with you per se. What people will say is their problem.
Some of you still have curfews at 27 years old. You don’t have the guts to tell your parents that you’re dating. You have your own money but can’t move out because they won’t allow you to. You even have to mute them on WhatsApp before posting pictures of yourself showing cleavage at an Owanbe. That is a sad way to live life.
They just want to use you to correct their mistakes. They see you as an extension of themselves, and you have to refuse to be that.
This is also why you must start finding ways to make money for yourself very early. Being dependent on your parents, especially 100% financially, gives them the leverage to take away your autonomy.
You spent your teenage years impressing and pleasing your parents, and now that you’re almost 30, you’re scared to disappoint them even though you’re not going astray? Pathetic!
Rebel today. They’ll be fine, walahi.
Kogi state is not among the top 30states in Nigeria.
Can you please focus on your poverty and underdevelopment.
Win or lose, Peter Obi has already got himself and generation aligned for life. Stop showcasing your low IQ.
Dear @PeterObi supporters, the thing you did in Asaba- if you’re truly who you think you are- please come and do it in Okene, Kogi State.
Thank you.
Mokassins have this Godfather vibes as a shoe. Rugged. Bold. Strong. Lively. Dogged. Always prepared for the journey. The steeps and slopes never a worry. Always forward, no time for resting. It gives you aura. It gives your feet strength and comfort to be able to thrive in every terrain. A proper elite shoe.
Men are propping her. So, she won't get your point or totally ignore it.
She's 100% speaking the truth. But the terrain she has entered at that age is a dangerous one.
Naive men who don't know this will continue to argue. They don't just understand how far the witches in the feminists coven will go to destroy her in order to prove a point. Even predatory men are on the watch.
She's not speaking something new. It's what Gehgeh, Joshua, Yegha, IM, Ubunja, etc. have been speaking in the manosphere. So, any man hearing such takes from such a young girl and delighted about it is just a naive man. Because she's repeating the words popular in the manosphere and not saying something new. But I get the fact that men are excited when it's a woman speaking about male truth.
The only way she's going to survive this terrain is to be fully protected by a solid and quality male figure who will guide her and lead her in a way for her to be able to pierce into the arteries of both men and women to understand their psychological makeup and their tendencies. A father is the best person on this position to do this. Then to a good husband. Because any other male will pretend to show concern and aim for her pussy.
It's rare for a young woman like that to be able to protect herself from the danger she has exposed herself to. I hope she finds all the necessary help and wisdom for her to navigate this terrain.
An interlocking tile landing at the center of your backbone is not the price you supposed to pay for being used as a thug.
The painful part here is that the stipend he collected for this show of shame and near death experience isn't enough to carry out an X-ray examination on his head and spinal cord.
Play stupid games, win stupid prize.
The reason why feminists are waiting for downfall is because she's still young and naive and has not experienced men.
Now that downfall will be catastrophic for her if she:
1. Lacks a quality male figure guiding her and leading her all through the way through.
2. Fails to see, analyzed, and understand feminists points even though they are mostly vague and pointless. However, she must know it.
3. Experiencing a man through the lens of a good masculine figure.
It's not enough to be a male protagonists in a female's suit - because everything she's stating isn't from personal experience or careful observations but cherry picking nuggets from male redpill communities.
Exposing the foolishness of feminists and every of their rhetorics is not enough. She must also understand men and be able to differentiate a good man from predatory men. That's the only way she'll not be mocked by feminists in the future.
Since I discovered thrift books at a cheaper price (God bless Tiktok) and many which are of good quality, reading soft copies of books has become a serious problem for me. I'm struggling keeping up with so many of the soft copies I've once had. It will be a painful detachment because they've really helped and shaped my writing, thinking, and speaking ability. Because in the past, I've read more soft copies than hard copies.
Right now, if I'm not admiring a new book purchase, I'm looking forward to another new purchase. The smell of books has started saturating my room gradually and I love it.
This era of hard copies is what I've always looked forward to and it's time for a new dispensation of reading and studying materials.
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When someone I love offends me, I try to remember the times they showed up for me, sacrificing their time, resources, and reputation to encourage and serve me.
It inhibits me from villainising and dehumanising them because these people just like me are frail and infallible.
As a man, if you know your worth and certainly decides to marry a virgin, you'll definitely find one to marry.
If you definitely understand intersexual dynamics and the effects and consequences of a woman's past life, you'll find a virgin to marry.
If you simply don't care, this thread is for you. Not me and my guys.
He said "you don't want to see her suffer alongside you"
As per he's the poor man and she's the princess that must be taken care of even if it's pap and watery beans the woman and her family normally survive on in their house.
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If you honestly believe all men and women are the same and that love does not exist, you are a very big fool!!!!
You want sex. She wants sex. But she's the "whore."
It's how you don't also see yourself guilty of what you accused her of.
Seek, and you shall find.
Ask, and it shall be given unto you.
Knock, and the door will be opened.
It's better to get aired than die in silence. It will multiply your heartbreak but it's better because you'll still live in the regret of "I wish I know, I would have asked for help."
If you're scared of asking for help from people around you, it means they're low quality or you've been inconsistent with them. But wait, I get where you're coming from. You can be high quality and those around you too but because of self-esteem and pride, you'll rather choose to toil the ground, work your way around it, and proffer solution because you feel more accomplished and relaxed. Ego intact and unhurt.
But is it good to stay silent when you have quality people that can help you? I don't think "No" is a good answer. But you must apply yourself to get the necessary help that you want. You apply yourself by showcasing your value and whatever you know you can do to attract people that might help you. Now, you're neither begging nor asking for help outrightly but engaging in a cooperative association by providing value no matter how minimal in exchange for what you want.
Silence is rational. But not always the best approach.
Social media helping men with the natural selection process.
God bless the videographer and content creators.
It's now left for men to decide.
Totally agree with this. Even more than the attention, the hordes at which they manifest such stupidity is at an alarming rate. Every refresh per second, there's always one foolish woman with the most nonsensical opinion. It makes one ponder if they're being paid or inhabited in a secluded space to keep posting such absurdities and nonsense. It's crazy.
They need to be extremely ignored henceforth.
I want to believe that there are some group of cynical men sponsoring the latest stupidity of +234 women on this app. Cos this is no longer ordinary. Pure ragebaiting. Pure stupidity. Loud arrogance. Every refresh, one lunatic woman is hanging at the top feed with so much silliness.
I'm believing it's a pysop and not girls ordinarily trying to be deliberately stupid with full confidence by expressing their opinioi- even though I acknowledge that women on average are irrational and impulsive. But latest outpouring seems like a machination.
Those quick to give advise have not yet experienced similar pain so can't empathize in a way that can bring the victim or mourners out of their shell to see the light.
That's why most counsel aren't acknowledged or are taken for granted because the consoler isn't accurately mapping the bewilderment of the mourner.
