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7. Don't settle for being wanted when you deserve to be chosen.
Desire is a spark. Value is the foundation.
Look for the person who gives you both, and don't confuse the spark for the foundation.
Save this.
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As a marriage counselor, I’ve discovered the brutal truth about why 92% of couples stop having sex.
It has absolutely nothing to do with physical attraction, getting older, or having kids.
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If you want to fix a dead bedroom, stop focusing on the physical mechanics of sex.
Start taking on the invisible mental load without being asked.
Great sex is simply the direct byproduct of two people who genuinely feel valued.
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BRAIN🌹 retweeted
1. The amygdala fires: the ADHD brain’s threat detection system is hyperresponsive to social evaluative stimuli. When something shame-worthy is perceived — a mistake, a criticism, a moment of public failure — the amygdala doesn’t calibrate the response to the size of the event. It activates a full threat response. Heart rate. Cortisol. The body physically responds to mild embarrassment as if something dangerous has happened.
BRAIN🌹 retweeted
BREAKING: Scientists confirm that shame hits differently in ADHD brains.
Where most people feel mild embarrassment, the ADHD nervous system registers full threat. The amygdala fires. The body responds.
This is why you can’t “just let it go.” The let-go mechanism is wired differently.
BRAIN🌹 retweeted
If you love someone with ADHD, here are 5 things we wish you understood.
Congrats.
You chose a highly complex, deeply lovable, occasionally chaotic human. Very elite. One of these takes ten seconds.
7. Staying silent about the real issue until it is too late
She minimizes, absorbs, and endures then explodes or exits.
Early honesty is kinder than delayed collapse.
A relationship cannot improve around a truth no one will name.
This is not about blaming women.
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