Dr. Bubu💗

Introducing ASHEWO; Every Woman is a Prostitute. A fashion editorial directed and styled by me. Over the next few threads, I’ll be introducing you to this amazing body of work.

Marriage is not something I can do with a non Nigerian. Marriage is tooooooooo eternal for me to do it with someone I will spend 10 years adapting to or will give up some parts of my culture for The gist has to be steady for marriage to be interesting for me. If I lack things to gist with you I will clock out of the entire relationship And what gists will I gist with someone that spent their first 25 years in Oregon? When I can be gisting random with a Nigerian babe and we will end seeing that we know a mutual from secondary school, from different states and we met during Milo soccer competition We can have random gists about Styl Plus and Paul Play. We can talk about Nigerian politics from way back. We can talk about so many things that both of us can relate to. Gisting is too important for me in relationships. It's too important. And way back gists are Soul striking More importantly I don't have to adjust my taste buds. Black Tax also is a community responsibility for me, many cultures frown at it and I cannot stop that.

Bambam's best friend didn't know she knew about the affair she was having with her husband until this happened🥹

If you’re in a relationship and thinking of entering the Express Entry pool alone because your partner doesn’t want to write the English test yet, please read this carefully. I get it. Age is moving, you want to maximise your CRS score, and your person is not fully sold on Canada or the exam. It’s tempting to just apply as single and “sponsor later.” Don’t. If you are already married or have lived together as a couple for 12 continuous months, IRCC expects you to declare them. Hiding the relationship can be treated as misrepresentation. That can mean refusal, a 5-year ban, or problems keeping your PR later. The safer option most people don’t fully understand is listing your partner as non-accompanying. You still declare the relationship, but you tell IRCC they are not moving with you right away. This usually gives you higher points because you’re scored more like a single applicant. Your partner does not need to write IELTS or CELPIP for this. Their language score won’t reduce your CRS. They only need to do the medical exam so they can still be sponsored later. If you leave them off completely or they skip the medical, you may never be able to sponsor them under the family class. That door can close permanently. If you’re not yet married and haven’t lived together for a full year, then applying as single is usually fine and you can sponsor after you become a PR. This is not legal advice. Every relationship and file is different. Speak to a licensed RCIC or immigration lawyer before you submit anything. Protect your points. Protect your relationship. And don’t create a problem you can’t fix later.