Being a man is so easy, if you like a girl, all you have to do is lock in and make money, then approach her, ask her for a date, then wow her with some flowers and gifts, and most likely she will say yes eventually even if she initially didn't like you back. For a girl, if you like a boy, if he doesn't like you, thats it. There is nothing you can do. If you tell him, you risk looking loose, you'd be lucky if he doesn't make you a situationship, you can't buy him gifts, he might hate you for it, men have delicate egos. All you can do is build castles in the air and hope for the best