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Psychologist, author, lecturer, professor in the Department of Counseling Psychology at Pacifica Graduate Institute. All tweets are tentative hypotheses.

Santa Barbara, California, USA
Joined April 2009
I came looking for myself But found only more people in need of healing – at Paris, France
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What distinguishes psychoanalysis from symptom-focused therapeutic approaches is that, rather than primarily seeking to eradicate the symptom, it aims to transform the subject’s relationship to it and investigate its place and function within the subject’s psychic economy.
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The American People summoned their moral constitution, repudiated Donald Trump and the MAGA Republicans forever, and demanded moral leadership from their elected representatives, reclaiming for America the moral authority required to be the leader of the free world once again.
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Just like we planned!
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When I said I liked it rough, I didn't mean my whole life.
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Epistrophē – at Bexhill, England
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As a psychologist, the deeper question i like to ask is: what in particular do you do with your own darkness? – at Brighton, England
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Being avoidant is poisonous, and life wants your flawed participation
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Getting my Pre-Raphaelite fix during my last days in London. – at Lambeth, London
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Psychodynamic psychotherapy is a real relationship with a real person. It is a boundaried attachment experience which the therapeutic contract demands we observe with excruciating honesty. It must happen between two sentient beings that are capable of emotions and especially shame. The therapists unique responsibility is to bring a reflective function to that relationship (whether the client has that reflective function or not), and that reflective function comes from learning to lovingly tolerate shame. Nothing you can get from an AI will provide what I wrote above, although AI can help with other aspects of therapy such as frame-shifting, psychoeducation, and identifying cognitive distortions. This is why I think AI will replace (already is replacing) therapies such as CBT and many other "evidence based" therapies, but it cannot replace psychodyhamic relational psychotherapy. – at Islington, London
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The hidden motivation of depressive introjection is to continue to find a way to idealize, and therefore love, the other. As is common among children who tend to blame themselves for their parents’ divorce, the depressive calculus is that it is better to believe that “this is all my fault” than to countenance the alternative, that love itself sometimes fails. In this sense, depressive introjection serves a defensive value against abandonment anxiety, and amounts to wishfully populating the world with idealized objects who can be trusted with love. – at Islington, London
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Where did i get all this trickster energy, and what do I do with it? – at Kensington, London
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People with history of trauma are like holes in the walls of the universe. They allow extraplanar possibilities to leak through. – at Kensington, London
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Therapist challenge: In session, don't say more than you can say on one breath. – at Kensington, London
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