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if u know me irl please please keep it to urself.

🐶 | homophobic dni
Joined September 2020
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Quando você finalmente desiste de algo que tanto queria que desse certo.
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Jujur punya strict parents traumatis krn banyak kesempatan ilang just bcs mereka takut anaknya kenapa-kenapa. Ortu kek gini jg kalo anaknya gagal malah marahin anaknya dan ngeblame anaknya atas segala hal yg lalu. Ortu strict parents wajib ke psikolog sih, ga beres polpiknya
alah basi. temen2 gw (pengakuan mereka) boleh sleepover ngonser dll idupnya fine2 aja. anak ama ortu harmonis. mereka bersyukur ga pernah dikekang2 ampe dewasa gitu. yg dikekang? ketawa aja dah. jangankan sayang ama ortu. malah ga pengen punya anak jg takut ngulang hal yg sama.
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I know how "I think my entire existence is a waste" feels like. Alasan gue suicidal dulu, sebelum berobat: gue ngerasa ga punya pilihan hidup krn selalu dikontrol nyokap. Kek, buat apa gue hidup kalo gapunya free will?
Replying to @nignkai
Terkadang gw juga mikir "udahlah ribet kerja, makan ngabisin duit lagi, mati aja." Karena pattern yang sama dengan "gak usahlah macem macem, ribet, ngabisin duit." I think my entire existence is a waste.
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Nah inilah. Strict parents cuman bisa dilawan oleh anak² yg dewasa, tegas & capable. Kalo masi tergantung ya gak bisa. Sedihnya, ortu² model begini emg didikannya bikin anak²nya dependant. Sengaja dibikin ga mandiri supaya mereka ttp pegang kontrol atas anak²nya.
💯 Waktu mau pindah ke NL, aku cuma bilang “Pak, buk, aku mau pindah ke Belanda.” Langsung ditentang keras. Tapi kubilang “Ini aku gak ijin. Aku cuma kasih info. Aku bakalan bersyukur kalo bapak ibuk dukung. Kalo gak, yaudah gpp, aku tetep pindah ke Belanda.”
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kalau lu merasa queer relationship cuman berputar di sex doang that’s your fucking problem but honestly that’s something you need to unlearn.
kok bisa dtm yg ngekritik penggunaan label bromance dikira cuman mikirin sex scene… romantic relationship without sexual intimacy juga ada. yg lagi dibahas itu bukan cuman sax sex sax sex doang gusti.
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Eu fingindo que não estou morrendo de sono no trabalho.
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padahal ada loh ortu yg ngekang sampai anaknya gabisa berkembang, trauma, dan anxious setiap saat. is that what they called love?
WKWK some of y'all are victim of emotional abuse disguised as care & safety when it was all about power & control to manipulate you to become "obedient" pantes aja ya disini genre overprotectiveness / borderline toxic gitu banyak peminatnya org dianggep "sayang" & "cinta" okkkk
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When normies seeing something outside their bubble
dia ni kenapa ya kayak kebelet edgy
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"هل تؤيدين الاجهاض؟" ايه "طيب هل عادي لو امك اجهضتك؟" ايه
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me when my energy has been drained to talk to people
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Akar masalahnya itu bukan anak yg kurang mandiri & ga bisa bikin percaya, tapi karena orang tuanya yg emang controlling/gila kendali. Mereka akan melakukan apapun buat framing seolah anaknya yg salah, kalian jangan ikut²an setuju dengan mindset orang tua toxic begitu.
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Rada trigger liat opini² yg bilang "Ortu masih strict meski udah dewasa itu karena anak ga bisa bikin mereka percaya, dan karena kurang mandiri" Oh, ofc blame the kid, right? Strict parents itu mau lu buktiin bisa mandiri, pinter, kerja becus masih ngekang dan ga akan percaya.
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diskursus strict parents bikin sadar kalo punya parents yang berprinsip “mumpung masih muda harus sering explore dan banyak bergaul” is privilege. pas awal kuliah dikasih advice intinya i’m allowed to go anywhere cause they trust me so they want me to not disappoint them
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my level of wokeness is when i’m boycotting susu mb*k d*rm*
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kuvira with her hair down #tlok
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suka banget gue pembahasan strict parents ini. iya, emang kita harus rebel, tapi layesnya tuh banyak banget. the guilt, the manipulation, bener-bener gila... gue sekarang baru bisa ngapa-ngapain sejak ada cowok gue. sedih kalo dipikir tapi ya udah lah...
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Cat with a microphone green screen
Hes got a couple good points tbh
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i love this fucking cat. why so awkward
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mfs when you genuinely just quiet
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Kuvira not being on the list
bringing this back again cuz actually wdym SUYIN BEIFONG is part of the LGBTQ+ avatar characters roster 😭😭 full government name too so we couldn't mistake it for anyone else
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