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☺️✌🏽😘 @FlemGodd
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I saw a clip of him saying how grateful he is that #myshayla is now a term of endearment
the daughters are saying very clearly here that this message was expressed and received with love was of paramount importance to shaping their understanding of motherhood and what it is. who is the sadness for? the actual children or your worldview
sweet afia retweeted
If you work in advocacy, you'd realise that some women don't mind useless men as partners. They just want YOU to provide all the things he refuses to. Financial and emotional labour and safety. You think some women are in bad situations but they're actually users looking for prey
Before I got married, I accommodated a pregnant friend till she gave birth because she was abandoned by the person that got her pregnant.
She got a job and started paying little bills in the house and everything was going well.
One day, I traveled to see my father. A message dropped on my phone which says “ babe, please don’t come home today. I gave my baby daddy the home address and he is around” I was really furious after reading the text. I called her multiple times but no answer. I didn’t go home that day because I knew I would have done something bad.
When I got home the next day, I told her to leave my house immediately. She started throwing tantrums that I was just jealous because I didn’t have a man.
I threw her things out and told her never to contact me again.
I found out she moved into the guy’s house, got pregnant again and the guy left her to cater for the two kids.
She is carrying the burden till now and I’m glad she didn’t even bother to reach out to me.
sweet afia retweeted
i don’t resonate with the culture of being mean to your partner in any way shape or form and i think it’s very important for black women especially to reject traits, patterns, and habits that softly introduce you to cruelty disguised as jokes.












































