I tried to get pregnant for 8 years. 3 miscarriages, 2 failed IVFs, $30k gone. My husband and I saved $30k again for our last chance IVF. I'm 34, my doctor said this is our last good chance, my eggs are almost gone. I saved every dollar. No hair, no nails, no DoorDash for 2 years. Double shifts as a CNA. We were supposed to start IVF next month. I went to pay the $5k deposit. My account was empty. Zero. $30k gone. I called my husband shaking: "Where is our IVF money? The account is empty!" He said "What? What do you mean empty? Let me check." He came home and showed me his phone. $12.78 balance. I said "Where is $30k?" He said "I don't know. It was there. I must have spent it?" Spent it on WHAT? $30k? I said "Show me your statements right now." He started sweating. "Babe, don't do this, you're stressing me, I had a lot going on, I can't remember." Can't remember where $30k went?