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Ibadan, Nigeria
Joined February 2015
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A married man is angry with his wife and wants to make a decision. Three years ago, he was in a financial mess and in debt due to some failed business deals. He had to sell their only car to pay off some of the debt. When his brothers-in-law got to know about his ordeals, they were not happy with the situation. So they rallied to support him and bought another car for him. He decided to set aside the business and started driving for Bolt/Uber with the car. Through it, he was able to clear his debt and continued providing for his family. They have two children. Last Sunday, he was having a quarrel with his wife over an undisclosed issue. Then he said, "I am the head of this home. I am grateful to God that I have good in-laws too, but I will not watch you disrespect me. I provide for you and the children the best I can." Then his wife responded in a very rude way: "Who would you have become if not for my brothers? Don't you also have brothers? What did they do for you?" He said that he felt so cold after hearing what his wife said to him and that he now feels sudden hatred toward her. He doesn't want to report her to her brothers, but he is no longer seeing his wife the same way. He said that he cried that Sunday night because after she said that, he just left the house for a bar, where he cried in silence. What is still painful to him is that his wife has still not apologized for what she said, and is going about her business like she did nothing. He wants to quietly walk away from the marriage and go start his life somewhere else. He will leave the car with her and abandon them to their fate. He doesn't feel the need to keep pushing for his family anymore because his wife has killed the man in him. What would you advise him to do? AJD.
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EYITAYO retweeted
Atiku’s Promise To Reopen The Borders Will Give Room To Illegal Smuggling — Robert’s Some of those boarders are under strict regulations and monitoring. For a country fighting multidimensional insecurity, there is no way we just throw our boarders open without making sure there are regulations. Dr. Anya Robert’s Counter-Terrorist and Counter-Insurgency Expert
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The Moment governor Adeleke was declared the winner of the election See Davido’s reaction. You just have to love him❤️🐐🔥
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Can a man find his wife sexually unattractive and still love her? My answer is No. A man does not even need to love his wife, for him to be sleeping with her. In marriage, sex is a duty. And not necessarily an obligation. It's a duty because it's affiliated with roles, positions, and moral and ethical standards that marriage is expected to uphold. It's not necessarily an obligation, because it may be seen as being legally forced to indulge in it to avoid some form of punishment. Meaning, it may not be a consensual act. Love is ephemeral in marriage. It may be there, or it may not be there. But the couple must be intentionally committed to each other. "I married this woman, I don't have to love her, but I owe her a duty of care, protection, provision and sex" That's why you're her husband. If you deny your wife of sex, what you're doing in essence is dereliction of duty. You're willfully being negligent of her emotional or sexual needs. Can you as a married man, stay for one or two months without sex? Especially when you're not even far away from your wife? Where are you getting sex from if you've not been sleeping with your wife for months? Now flip it. Can a married woman stay without sex for months? Especially when she's not far away from her husband? Where is her husband expecting her to get sex from? You cannot tell me that blood is not flowing in her veins, or that she is no longer attractive to you as her husband. If you don't see her sexually attractive to you anymore, it's because you're not taking good care of her. You cannot use the excuse of her breasts getting sagged or her stomach not being flat anymore to deny her of sex. Those are the "scars" of motherhood, which you put on her. You must embrace those scars and appreciate her body the way it is. As long as your wife is not recalcitrant, or that you have caught her cheating, or that she is not dirty, you should not deny her of sex. And if you're a kind provider, you'd further keep her in the mood and constantly or ever ready to accept you into her bosom & "Jerusalem". Being a pastor or Imam should not be used as an excuse either. You cannot be denying your wife of sex in the name of "I am praying to God to grant me my wish, so I have to abstain from sex". God himself ordained marriage. And he blessed your vows and covenant. So stop using religion as an escape route. Go and fuck your wife. End.
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Nothing is as painful to a man who once dated you, & who made you feel like you were nothing, as seeing that you've moved on & are doing better without him. He'll gaslight you & try to manipulate your feelings with pitiful words, just so you can come back. He's a loser. End.
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In marriage, there are two leaders. The husband and the wife. The husband leads from the front and the wife leads from behind. When the man leads from the front, he becomes the head of the home. When the woman leads from behind, she becomes the neck of the home. The head will not stand without the neck. And will not survive too. The neck determines the direction of the head. But the head must signal to the neck which way to turn. Because the head is where the brain resides. And the brain determines what the neck does. If the brain is malfunctioning, it would give the neck the wrong signals. So do not expect the neck to take full responsibility for the neck's failure. End.
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My teachings must go round. Dear shameless 50/50 men, Please listen. Thank you, @onyii_5
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I recall a DM that I shared one time from a young man. His father was having financial problems for a long time. So he decided to be coming home sparingly. When he asked his father why he seldom came home.. "My son, I can't come back home to eat, if I cannot give your mother money to cook the food. The insult I get from your mother will not let the food digest in my stomach. I would rather eat the food that you or your brother provided money for". Every man has an ego. Some men have unfortunately accepted their fate, and some would rather stay away, to avoid the humiliation. A woman's money is not sweet to taste. And they don't give free money to men. Especially men that are supposed to be their providers, & sleeping with them. If she shelters you, one day she will remind you that you're a "visitor". If she feeds you, one day she will remind you that you are eating free meals. The fact that you may observed this from your home when you were still under your parents, & that they're still together, doesn't mean your father was happy throughout. He either did not have a choice, or he became too relaxed & used to the subtle insults & humiliation. And your father will never advice you to be in his position. Yes, he will praise your mother for her years of kindness towards him, but he'll tell you not to depend on a woman for such things. And you shouldn't. For you single young men, Start preparing yourselves for the task ahead of you. Tell yourselves that you can do it through Christ that strengthens you. If you marry a woman that is also making money, be happy with your choice. But only rely on her money, and not depend on it. Learn to appreciate your wife whenever she does things for you, the house, or for the children. Learn to pay her back, if not in full, but in part. By doing so, you're telling her that you appreciate her support and kindness. And that you know it's your responsibility to provide for her. Your wife is not making money for you. She's making it for herself and your children. There a many things that she would be doing with her money, that may not be visible to you. But she's helping you. Where you'd miss it, is when you start to act entitled to her money, & start demanding that she also plays your role because she's your wife. If your wife tells you to start sharing the cooking, cleaning, nursing, nurturing etc with her, would you be happy doing it? Roles can be flexed, but they're not interchangeable. And this is the natural order. God is nature. End.
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Please spend 12 minutes of your time to watch this video. You'd be glad that you did. This man is me. Credit:Sharnyandjulius on IG.
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I asked three colleagues if they had any resolutions for the new year, and one of them said, “My resolution this year is to have no resolution.” Though funny, it is not devoid of depth. Every new year, millions of people make resolutions: I will register at a gym and exercise three times a week; I will save 30% of my annual income; I will finish the Bible this year and pray for one hour a day; no more sports gambling; zero fizzy drinks; no more alcohol this year, no, I will limit it to one glass of wine a week. Yet, within weeks or months, many of these goals quietly collapse. The default explanation is often personal failure: “I wasn’t consistent” or “I lacked discipline.” Continuous Quality Improvement (CQI) principle, however, teaches a different lesson: failure is rarely individual; it is usually systemic. One of the most enduring CQI tools is the 5 Whys, developed in the 1930s by Sakichi Toyoda, founder of Toyota Industries, and later embedded into the Toyota Production System. It is a simple but powerful approach for identifying the root cause of problems. This principle can also be applied to one's personal life as you launch into the new year. I applied this same principle to myself, and it revealed why I did not follow through with some resolutions last year. It is probably not the first time you are making the same resolution, so ask yourself “why?” repeatedly until the true root cause is identified. This is the basis of the 5 Whys. A classic example: you resolved to stop smoking last year. You stopped successfully for six weeks, then the habit returned. This year, you made the same resolution again without addressing the root cause of why you relapsed. A typical root cause analysis would look like this using the 5 whys. I failed to quit smoking last year. 1st Why Why? Because I relapsed during stressful days. 2nd Why Why did stress trigger me to smoke? Because smoking had become my coping mechanism. 3rd Why Why was smoking my coping mechanism? Because I never developed an alternative stress-management habit. 4th Why Why didn’t I develop healthier coping options? Because my plan to quit focused only on stopping cigarettes, not on replacing the behavior. 5th Why Why was the plan incomplete? Because the real problem was never nicotine alone; it was stress, routine, and environment (such as spending time with friends who smoke). This is a systemic view to smoking cessation, in addition to encouraging people to seek professional support. Blaming willpower is like replacing a blown fuse over and over. Unless the system changes-stress response, daily routine, social cues-you are likely to return to your pre-resolution phase. Applying this CQI tool helps you develop a systems approach to improving your life and achieving the goals you set for yourself. As we set goals, especially at the start of a new year, the most useful question may not be “What new resolution should I make?” but rather: “Why didn’t the last one work, and what system must change?” Because whether in factories, health systems, or personal life, lasting improvement never comes from fixing symptoms, it comes from fixing systems. Wishing you the grace to go through your resolutions in 2026.
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What being a husband & a father means, is that you have decided to take up the responsibilities & wellbeing of your wife and children. And you must be prepared to die trying. It's why you must choose the right wife that deserves to go through that phase with you. End.
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You as a young single man, is busy wasting your scare resources on a girls, in the name of... "I have to take good care of my girlfriend". Girl wey you never marry. Girl wey fit even get money or savings pass you. All because of toto water. Foolish boy. End.
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The real reason the US is invading Venezuela goes back to a deal Henry Kissinger made with Saudi Arabia in 1974. And I'm going to explain why this is actually about the SURVIVAL of the US dollar itself. Not drugs. Not terrorism. Not "democracy." This is about the petrodollar system that has kept America the dominant economic power for 50 years. And Venezuela just threatened to end it. Here's what really just happened: Venezuela has 303 billion barrels of proven oil reserves. The largest on Earth. More than Saudi Arabia. 20% of the entire world's oil. But here's the part that matters: Venezuela was actively selling that oil in Chinese yuan. Not dollars. In 2018, Venezuela announced it would "free itself from the dollar." They started accepting yuan, euros, rubles, anything BUT dollars for oil. They were petitioning to join BRICS. They were building direct payment channels with China that bypass SWIFT entirely. And they were sitting on enough oil to fund de-dollarization for decades. Why does this matter? Because the entire American financial system is built on one thing: The petrodollar. In 1974, Henry Kissinger made a deal with Saudi Arabia: All oil sold globally must be priced in US dollars. In exchange, America provides military protection. This single agreement created artificial demand for dollars worldwide. Every country on Earth needs dollars to buy oil. This lets America print unlimited money while other countries work for it. It funds the military. The welfare state. The deficit spending. The petrodollar is more important to US hegemony than aircraft carriers. And there's a pattern of what happens to leaders who challenge it: 2000: Saddam Hussein announces Iraq will sell oil in euros instead of dollars. 2003: Invaded. Regime change. Iraq's oil immediately switched back to dollars. Saddam lynched. The WMDs were never found because they never existed. 2009: Gaddafi proposes a gold-backed African currency called the "gold dinar" for oil trade. Hillary Clinton's own leaked emails confirm this was the PRIMARY reason for intervention. Email quote: "This gold was intended to establish a pan-African currency based on the Libyan golden Dinar." 2011: NATO bombs Libya. Gaddafi sodomized and murdered. Libya now has open slave markets. "We came, we saw, he died!" Clinton laughed on camera. The gold dinar died with him. And now Maduro. With FIVE TIMES more oil than Saddam and Gaddafi combined. Actively selling in yuan. Building payment systems outside dollar control. Petitioning to join BRICS. Partnered with China, Russia, and Iran. The three countries leading global de-dollarization. This isn't coincidence. Challenge the petrodollar. Get regime changed. Every. Single. Time. Stephen Miller (US homeland security advisor) literally said it out loud two weeks ago: "American sweat, ingenuity and toil created the oil industry in Venezuela. Its tyrannical expropriation was the largest recorded theft of American wealth and property." He's not hiding it. They're claiming Venezuelan oil BELONGS to America because US companies developed it 100 years ago. By this logic, every nationalized resource in history was "theft." But here's the DEEPER problem: The petrodollar is already dying. Russia sells oil in rubles and yuan since Ukraine. Saudi Arabia is openly discussing yuan settlements. Iran has been trading in non-dollar currencies for years. China built CIPS, their own alternative to SWIFT with 4,800 banks in 185 countries. BRICS is actively building payment systems that bypass the dollar entirely. The mBridge project lets central banks settle trades instantly in local currencies. Venezuela joining BRICS with 303 billion barrels of oil would accelerate this exponentially. That's what this invasion is really about. Not stopping drugs. Venezuela accounts for less than 1% of US cocaine. Not terrorism. There's zero evidence Maduro runs a "terror organization." Not democracy. The US supports Saudi Arabia, which has zero elections. This is about maintaining a 50-year-old agreement that lets America print money while the world works for it. And the consequences are terrifying: Russia, China, and Iran are already denouncing this as "armed aggression." China is Venezuela's biggest oil customer. They're losing billions. BRICS nations are watching a country get invaded for trading outside the dollar. Every nation considering de-dollarization just got the message: Challenge the dollar and we will bomb you. But here's the problem... That message might accelerate de-dollarization, not stop it. Because now every country in the Global South knows what happens if you threaten dollar hegemony. And they're realizing the only protection is to move FASTER. The timing is insane too: January 3rd, 2026. Venezuela invaded. Maduro captured. January 3rd, 1990. Panama invaded. Noriega captured. 36 years apart. Almost to the day. Same playbook. Same "drug trafficking" excuse. Same real reason: control of strategic resources and trade routes. History doesn't repeat. But it rhymes. What happens next: Trump's press conference at Mar-a-Lago sets the narrative. US oil companies are already lined up. Politico reported they've been approached about "returning to Venezuela." The opposition will be installed. Oil will flow in dollars again. Venezuela becomes another Iraq. Another Libya. But here's what nobody's asking: What happens when you can no longer bomb your way to dollar dominance? When China has enough economic leverage to retaliate? When BRICS controls 40% of global GDP and says "no more dollars"? When the world realizes the petrodollar is maintained by violence? America just showed its hand. The question is whether the rest of the world folds or calls the bluff. Because this invasion is an admission that the dollar can no longer compete on its own merits. When you have to bomb countries to keep them using your currency, the currency is already dying. Venezuela isn't the beginning. It's the desperate end. What do you think?
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Replying to @jon_d_doe
For those who might find it hard to comprehend because it actually took me a while to figure it also. A lady starts seeing a guy and before there is any real bond or trust, she is already asking him for favors, money, and commitment. He feels pressured and pulls back, because it looks transactional. But when two people genuinely connect first, share time, trust, and intimacy, he is often more willing to help, support, and give freely without being asked. So the lesson is: when you try to secure the “benefits” before the relationship is even real, you usually lose. When you let connection come first, what you need often follows naturally. I hope I am correct.
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Happy New Year beautiful people🎊🎊❤️❤️
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5 people DM-ed. I will be back to credit more for Christmas
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Christmas hits differently when the kids are this happy 🎄🥰 Peak Milk delivered even bigger!! #PeakMilk
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Merry Christmas to you all. May the birth of Christ be the birth of new things in your life. This is our 5th Christmas together. And it won't be the last. This beautiful graphics was designed by @Horkegraphix Happy celebrations 🎄
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