The flaw in this thought process, in addition to the idea that men should only treat women well based on hypotheticals created around their female relations, is that you people think that there are no men who side with deadbeats even when it is their sister/aunt/mum whose child has been neglected! Lol. The deadbeat scourge continues to exist primarily because men continue to be excused for the abuse they cause based on the idea that a man’s abuse can always be justified (the so called logical gender supposedly only acts when he is provoked. Lol) Stop telling them to compare their abuse to what would happen to their sisters! SHOW them that there are consequences to their abuse! This psychological coddling is not only presumptuous(because you think men automatically love the women they are related to😭😂) but absolutely ineffective! Men who abuse know what they are doing! Show them that there are social and legal consequences to this! Make them the example for others who would decide to do the same!