Cinnamon💜 retweeted
Before you do 50:50 with any man remember the Nigerian law doesn’t protect women.
It doesn’t favor woman.
If you do 50:50 with anybody you will lose woefully.
The Africaness in them will never be taken away. The woman will still carry most of the domestic burden
Can someone educate me, please? Nigerian women living abroad, whether married to or dating Nigerian men, how exactly does this 50/50 arrangement work?
Do you split everything financially down to the last penny? And do the men also split household responsibilities 50/50? Chores, cooking, cleaning and everything that comes with running a home? Or is it just the bills that are expected to be shared equally while the responsibilities at home remain largely on the woman's shoulders?
I genuinely want to understand because I don't live abroad, and I don't understand the dynamics behind all this 50/50 debate that's been dominating my timeline.
I also want to believe that some Nigerian men living abroad are married to Nigerian women or are in relationships with them. Do your wives split the bills 50/50? Do your girlfriends contribute equally?
And if some women come out to say they don't believe in splitting bills 50/50, why does that suddenly become an excuse to drag and generalise all Nigerian women? That's the part I don't understand.
Now, because of this same argument, foreigners have joined in to insult and generalise Nigerian women, and some Nigerian men are happily clapping along.
Well, I'm not surprised. Anything to drag a Nigerian woman, anything to disparage, degrade or humiliate her, and some of you are right there, eager to join in. Put all Nigerian women under one tweet and watch how excited some of you become.
Some of you will eventually marry Nigerian women. Some of you already have Nigerian wives. You have mothers, sisters, female cousins and other female relatives. Yet you find it so easy to insult an entire population of women because of the actions or opinions of a few.
We all know that not every Nigerian woman thinks or behaves the same way. So why is it so difficult to make that distinction?
Honestly, the level of excitement and the kind of erection some of you have been getting from this gender war over the past few days is something else.
Some people genuinely enjoy having a reason to hate and insult women. Keep being the idiots you are. Some men are just completely off it for me.
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
I don't believe in men's mental health cuz how are they depressed in a system set up to make them dominate and win? Get the hell outta my sight.
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
This Man visited & mentioned Plateau LGA’s off the top of his head.
Tinubu came after an attack,stopped at the airport, they dragged grieving families to meet him there, spent 30min, told us we don’t have light at the airport, then left.
VOTE WISELY!
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
There’s nothing special about a man just because he took your virginity. Move TF on!!!
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
LMAO. Even the one whose sister got married as a second wife in Owerri to a man that has been sponsoring their entire broke family because poverty has their father permanently in the blockus is out here contributing to the conversation?
My guy, you are only in the UK today because the Ada of your family sacrificed her youth and body just to raise you useless lot.
Some of you genuinely have no business talking.
And when this post hits your timeline, make sure you involve yourself so I can drop every single receipt.
Your father has no house of his own, your sister’s husband built him one. All of you got education because of your in-law, yet you’re still online talking down on women?
I already forwarded all your posts and replies to your younger sister so she can see exactly what her only brother is doing online. Disgusting fool. 🤮
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
You want to marry a woman that will change her name to your name for life and give birth to children that will bear your name and you still want her to do 50/50 with you. That’s so insane.
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
Very imbalance equation. I can pay all my bills myself and I will now go and be with a man to do his chores only to split bills again.
Am I mad? 🤣
Even if I'm not splitting bills, I'm not doing any man’s chores.
This 50/50 discourse is hilarious because men are finally realising that women don’t necessarily want them badly enough to take on the stress and responsibilities that come with relationships.
If I can pay my bills and afford my lifestyle alone, why would I add the emotional labour of nurturing, catering to, managing and accommodating another adult, only to still split bills?
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
You had 4 bloody years to work. You shouldn’t need to campaign at all if you actually did work. Let your work campaign for you.
Tactics dey cry😭😭😭😂
Every time I see many of us tagging @DONJAZZY in our financial requests, I hardly see people taking a moment to simply check up on him.
Good day, sir, @DONJAZZY. ❤️
I pray that life continues to be kind to you, sir, and that you never lack reasons to smile.
Today, from a genuinely sincere heart, I’d also love to gift you ₦10,000. I know it’s not much compared to the generosity you constantly show others, but I believe that even givers deserve to receive sometimes.
Please, sir, don’t turn down this little gesture. Allow someone to put a smile on your face too. ❤️
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Cinnamon💜 retweeted
Every time I see many of us tagging @DONJAZZY in our financial requests, I hardly see people taking a moment to simply check up on him.
Good day, sir, @DONJAZZY. ❤️
I pray that life continues to be kind to you, sir, and that you never lack reasons to smile.
Today, from a genuinely sincere heart, I’d also love to gift you ₦10,000. I know it’s not much compared to the generosity you constantly show others, but I believe that even givers deserve to receive sometimes.
Please, sir, don’t turn down this little gesture. Allow someone to put a smile on your face too. ❤️
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
JOS WHAT MANNER OF LOVE IS THIS?🔥
No Human should think about Rigging in 2027, it is a death sentence ❗️
The People’s President is in Jos, Plateau State, it’s a SHUTDOWN ❗️
2027= OBI is HERE❗️
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
She is one of feminism’s greatest achievements. Twenty years ago, society might have torn her down but Nigerian women speaking up and standing together have helped change that narrative.
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
I will never forget that Nigerian man that was asking us how to get his white babe to have a shower 💀
Something he could never take elsewhere. Any ways I hope they shower together now. 🫶🏾
Cinnamon💜 retweeted
Teaching 13-year-old girls domestic skills while their brothers relax is how gender inequality gets normalized in society.































