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"It's almost always better to learn from peers who are 2 years ahead of you than mentors who are 20 years ahead of you. Life evolves and most insights get outdated." - James Clear
On the value of self-development and self-care.
We are working towards resilience. We are working towards that inner fortress.
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This has been a long time in the making.
Yesterday I ran my first sub 90-minute half marathon in 13 years.
I’ve had two ACL ops in the meantime (good ol’ rugby) and weigh a lot more than I used to as a skinny 20y. old.
Since rehabbing my knee, I’ve attempted 15+ half marathons. On this attempt I finally cracked my PB. Very chuffed.
Here’s what made a difference this time:
1. Followed a proper training program for once. Instead of doing junk miles I trained according to a plan incl. intervals, fartleks etc. Some days it sucked but the visible progress made it worth it. You can get quality programs on Strava and Garmin.
2. Carbon-plated shoes definitely helped. Not gonna lie. Embrace the tech.
3. Marathon experience. I’ve done two marathons in the last two years. Makes a 21k feel much more manageable. You get better at judging how much you have left in the tank.
Pictured here with my #1 training partner 🐶
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Enjoyed working on this one.
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My latest essay on two works of fiction that had a profound impact on me this year.
johnnicholas.org/p/one-for-t…
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Second edition in a row on life lessons wrapped up in business lessons. Might be onto something :)
This one is about:
- defining your playing field,
- setting a BHAG, and
- finding a shared language
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John Nicholas retweeted
I'm 39 today.
I'd love if people who enjoyed my book would help by retweeting and sharing!
I'm getting better at directly asking for support and I figured this is a good day to ask :-)
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Some great reading tips by Neil Parischa. Thanks for capturing this, Alex.
Main one that stood out to me was not being scared to quit a book.
There are only so many books we can read in our lifetimes. Don’t waste your time reading something that feels like a drag.
As the image illustrates -- if you read 10 books per year from the age of 15 and you live to be 75 years old, that’s 600 books total. Zip. Finito. Not so many if you think about it.
Neil Parischa is a 10x bestselling author who reads 100+ books a year.
He's also the host of the "3 Books" podcast.
Here are 12 helpful reading tips from @NeilPasricha:
1) Replace TV time with reading time:
"My wife and I moved our sole TV into our dark, unfinished basement and got a bookshelf installed on the wall beside our front door. Now we see it, walk by it, and touch it dozens of times a day. And the TV sits dormant unless the Toronto Blue Jays are in the playoffs."
2) Make a public commitment:
"In his groundbreaking book Influence 'The Psychology of Persuasion', Robert Cialdini shares a psychology study showing that once people place their bets at the racetrack, they are much more confident about their horse’s chances than they were just before laying down the bet. He goes on to explain how commitment is one of the big six weapons of social influence. So why can’t we think of ourselves as the racehorses? Make the bet on reading by opening an account at Goodreads, friending a few coworkers or friends, and then updating your profile every time you read a book. Or put together an email list to send out short reviews of the books you read. I do exactly that each month, with my Monthly Book Club Email. I stole the idea from bestselling author Ryan Holiday, who has a great reading list."
3) Change your mindset about quitting:
"It’s one thing to quit reading a book and feel bad about it. It’s another to quit a book and feel proud of it. All you have to do is change your mindset. Just say, “Phew! Now I’ve finally ditched this brick to make room for that gem I’m about to read next.” An article that can help enable this mindset is “The Tail End,” by Tim Urban, which paints a striking picture of how many books you have left to read in your lifetime. Once you fully digest that number, you’ll want to hack the vines away to reveal the oases ahead. I quit three or four books for every book I read to the end. I do the “first five pages test” before I buy any book (checking for tone, pace, and language) and then let myself off the hook if I need to stop halfway through."
4) Take a "news fast":
"I subscribed to the New York Times and five magazines for years. I rotated subscriptions to keep them fresh, and always loved getting a crisp new issue in the mail. After returning from a long vacation where I finally had some time to lose myself in books, I started realizing that this shorter, choppier nature of reading was preventing me from going deeper. So I canceled all my subscriptions."
5) Redirect your reading dollars:
"Besides freeing up mindshare, what does canceling all news inputs do? For me, it saved more than $500 per year. That can pay for about 50 books per year. What would I rather have 10 or 20 years later — a prized book collection which I’ve read and learned from over the years…or a pile of old newspapers? And let’s not forget your local library. If you download Library Extension for your browser, you can see what books and e-books are available for free right around the corner."
6) Update your library:
"I realized that for years I’d thought of my bookshelf as a fixed and somewhat artistic object: There it is, sitting by the flower vases! Now I think of it as a dynamic organism. Always moving. Always changing. In a given week I probably add about five books to the shelf and get rid of three or four. Books come in through lending libraries in our neighborhood, a fantastic used bookstore, local indie and chain stores, and, of course, online outlets. Books go out when we pass them to friends, sell them to the used bookstore, or drop them off at the lending library. This dynamism means I’m always walking over to the shelf, never just walking by it. As a result, I read more."
7) Read more physical books:
"As author Seth Godin told me in an interview, “People rarely read a book in iBooks because you’re one click away from checking your email.” If we can be interrupted, alerted, or notified, we will. That’s not good for diving deep into new worlds. So what do I suggest? Real books. Real pages. On real paper. Yes, I’m OK with killing trees if it means gaining the ability to disappear into your own mind. Only real books let you be the full director of the show, after all. No voice replaces your mental voice, no formatting or display screen affects the artistic intentions of the writer. Sure, I get it if you need bigger fonts, or if you drive all day and prefer audiobooks, but I’m just saying that if you want to be a real book snob for the rest of your life just like me, actual books are where it’s at. And, if you must use a device, just make sure that e-reader can’t receive texts."
8) Read anywhere and everywhere:
"A good friend once told me a story that really stuck with me. He said Stephen King had told people to read something like five hours a day. My friend said, “That’s ridiculous. Who can do that?” But then, years later, he found himself in Maine on vacation. He was waiting in line outside a movie theater with his girlfriend, and guess who was waiting in front of him? Stephen King! His nose was in a book the whole time in line. When they got into the theater, Stephen King was still reading as the lights dimmed. When the lights came up, he pulled his book open right away. He even read as he was leaving. Now, I haven’t personally confirmed this story with The King himself but I think the message is an important one either way. Basically, you can read a lot more. There are minutes hidden in all the corners of the day, and they add up to a lot of minutes. In a way, it’s like the 10,000 steps rule. Walk around the grocery store, park at the back of the lot, chase your kids around the house, and bam — 10,000 steps."
9) Read both fiction and nonfiction:
"In general I read nonfiction in the mornings, when my mind is in active learning mode, and fiction at night before bed, when my mind needs an escape."
10) Make your phone less addictive:
"Cell phones are a problem. Our phones are designed to be smooth, sexy, and irresistible. Don’t believe me? The book Irresistible by Adam Alter will quickly raise your awareness to the addictive designs going into smartphones. They’re pocket slot machines. So what’s the solution? Make it disgusting. Put your phone in black and white. Move all the apps off the main screen so it’s blank when you open it. Leave your cracked screen cracked. Move your charger to the basement so it’s an extra step in your low resilience nighttime and morning moments. (Cause you're never really proud of those 11pm emails, amirite?) Enable Night Shift to automatically block calls and texts after 7pm. Slowly, slowly, slowly prevent it from becoming such a seductive temptress."
11) Get recommendations from your local bookseller:
"My favorite bookseller of all-time is Sarah Ramsey of Another Story Bookshop in Toronto. I walk in, I start blabbering, I start confessing, I share what I’m struggling with, she hmms and hahs and sizes me up as we wander around the store talking for half an hour. And then I walk out with an armload of books that completely fit my emotional state, where I want or need to grow, and those that resonate with me on a deeper level. If you believe humans are the best algorithm (like I do) then walking into your local independent bookstore, sizing up the Staff Picks wall to see who’s similar to you, and then asking them for personal picks is a great way to speed you up."
12) Remind yourself of the health benefits of reading:
"The 2011 The Annual Review of Psychology which says that reading triggers our mirror neurons and opens up the parts of our brain responsible for developing empathy, compassion, and understanding. Makes you a better leader, teacher, parent, and sibling. Another study published in Science Magazine in 2013 found that reading literary fiction helps us improve our empathy and social functioning. And, lastly, an incredible 2013 study at Emory University, MRIs taken the morning after test subjects were asked to read sections of a novel showed an increase in connectivity in the left temporal cortex. What’s that? The area of the brain associated with receptivity for language. Priming the brain. And the MRIs were done the next day. Just imagine the long-term benefits of cracking open a book every day."
John Nicholas retweeted
Last Friday, something weird happened to me.
While I was beating myself up for feeling super unproductive, 1k+ people signed up to #100daysofai...and I had zero clue.
After some digging, I realised an influencer with 212k followers on Twitter had shared the program with his community.
My initial reaction: "wow I'm SOOO lucky"
But after stewing on it, I realised it wasn't all luck.
In fact, I could trace it back to two very intentional things that *I* did...
1️⃣ Created a free educational experience that adds value to participants in different ways
2️⃣ Shared this program through my network with a big megaphone (sorry!)
Had I not done either, maybe it still would have happened! But the probability would of been far lower.
So this serves as an important reminder (and lesson) that luck isn't something that has to happen to you, it can be engineered in your favour by 1. adding value 2. sharing it.
This is why I love the idea of "luck surface area"
✨ “The amount of luck that you have in life is how much value you create, times how many people you tell about it.” ✨ - Patrick McKenzie
Presenting to the Small Bets community this Thursday!
Who's in?
@dvassallo @LBacaj
I never thought I would write anything business-y, yet here we are.
Here are 5 lessons I've picked up from consulting projects over the last few months.
1. Don’t panic
Everything usually works out.
The key is having the confidence that things will be OK and approaching projects knowing you will find the solution eventually.
2. No sacred cows
Leave ego at the door to make the best decision for the company. The same applies to your personal context.
3. Dead leaves nurture the ground
Going through 30+ interviews last year was painful, but the unexpected benefit is that I ended up learning a lot about different companies and business models out there.
This taught me nothing is wasted, only repurposed.
4. ‘What can I learn?’ reframe
No matter how boring the work appears to be, there will always be something new you can learn.
Even if (especially if) the work is uninteresting, try to find the components that harness your curiosity.
5. The value of good service
One of the companies I am consulting to has a relatively straightforward product suite.
What makes them stand out is their commitment to serve the hell out of their customers.
This speaks to the value of building a brand (and a life) around genuinely caring for people.
Great catching up with @nicrosslee and @henri_james_ in Cape Town last night.
Knew both of them before we all started writing and those friendships have only grown stronger afterwards.
If you haven't checked out their work yet, make sure to give them a follow.
(Yes, we did a poetry sprint while drinking margaritas.)
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They are also now the proud owners of the most inspiring/dangerous/challenging-the-status-quo book out there @p_millerd
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